Me and Cruz (My fiance) Were hoping to get married on Aug. 2nd 2009, and I had been planning some little things like photographer and venue and all that good stuff :P And then we found out about his deployment coming up soon and he'll more then likely be going before Aug. 2nd. So, we defiantly want to get married before his deployment but the only way to do that would be to either: A. Get married at the court house & Have a really nice wedding when he comes back from the deployment or B. Throw a very small wedding together in like 3 weeks & have only that and nothing else after. ??
I'm leaning more towards Plan A, because when he would get back in a year or so we'd have his enlisment bouns, plus his active duty pay from the deployment to put some toward our wedding and it would be our dream wedding and it would be perfect. But if we were "already married" would people still want to come to our "second" wedding??
I don't care either way because both senarious end up with me marrying the man of my dreams but what do you think? Should we go with plan A or B?