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He Left A Few Days Ago

So my soldier left a few days ago to start his premob training with his new unit. Leaving him at the airport was really hard. Everything hasnt completely sank in yet. I know he is gone and I miss him so much but my emotions havent gotten the best of me. So far we have gotten to talk through video chat every day since he has been gone. The first night was the hardest. It had all finally started to hit him and I had to sit and watch him cry on the video chat without being able to do anything about it.

He was originally told that they were coming home for two weeks at the end of march first of april, but now they are saying differently. Yesterday he was told that he may not be coming home then so I do not know when I will be able to see him next. Everything keeps changing. I hate that about the military...you never really know whats going on.

On top of all of that are supposed to have a yellow ribbon ceremony/family readiness program before he leaves. He really wants me to be able to go because his family has alot of problems. Anyways we are both pretty sure I wont be able to go because I dont fall into the army's definition of "family" since we are only engaged and not married.

Well thanks yall for listening. I just needed to talk and get some of this stuff out.

HeStoleMyHeart HeStoleMyHeart 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 28, 2010

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i garontee hell b home befor he deplys. they have to be alowed at least a week before he gets deployed. lookon the bright side of things hes not gone yet hes just training. and wen he dose go dont let it eat at you. i havent been through the deployment yet but its comming in march hes going on an 18 month tour. not looking forward to it but im hoping for the best

Yea I think that if we are commited enough to stand by our men and plan to marry them then we should be more involved. This is the life we are choosing to go into. Once he is deployed I will have to handle and be prepared for the same things his "family" will have to.

Yea I think that if we are commited enough to stand by our men and plan to marry them then we should be more involved. This is the life we are choosing to go into. Once he is deployed I will have to handle and be prepared for the same things his "family" will have to.

Hey girl hope you are doing better....dont you hate how us girls are engaged to our soldier but arent consider "family" we pretty much are and support them. I hope everything works out for you. message me anytime

Thank you both...i hope things dont change either. Hopefully we will get some solid answers soon.

awh... hang in there... if you need sumone to talk to u kan always email me =]



i really hope everything works out...

hi. Im hoping that things dont change for you guys and all will be well. I know its hard being away from your guy but things will get better soon.

hi. Im hoping that things dont change for you guys and all will be well. I know its hard being away from your guy but things will get better soon.