Someone Tell Me What He Is Thinking

I LOVE HIM BUT HE REQESTED ANOTHER DEPLOYMENT  WHAT WAS HE THINKING UGH I LOVE HIM BUT WTF ANOTHER HOLE YEAR UGHH I JUST NEED TO VENT I KNOW I HAVE WRITEN IN AWHILE THINGS GOT WORSE NOW MY FATHER HAS SAID I AM NOT ALLOWED TO SEE HIM AT ALL UGH AND WE SET THE DATE  FOR OUR WEDDING SOME ONE HELP?

TigersPumpkin TigersPumpkin
18-21, F
4 Responses Feb 21, 2010

Well if you need anyone to talk to or anything, message me :)

thanks girls but he is ready to get married so am i we set the date my family will come around i hope but requesting deployment he did talk to me i am being supposrtive i was just ranting thanks you guys for the help though

I would be so mad, but also try to be supportive as you can.. I agree, I wouldnt marry yet, especially with all of this going on. Im not marrying my boyfriend yet because Im young, and I figured that Im set on being with him, so there is no reason to rush everything. Plus you're going to need to figure out how to handle your family and him.

Ohhh boy...did he even tell you he was thinking about requesting another deployment before he did it? If you are supposed to be getting married, he should have at least mentioned it. If i was in your position, I wouldn't rush into marriage. You're young and he isn't ready to settle down if he's going to be requesting deployment when all of this is going on at home. I would wait until things settle down and he's done doing this thing..and gives you time to establish yourself. THen get married. What doesn't your dad like about him?