Wow.

I love how all these girls in school and stuff are complaining that they won't see their boyfriend tonight, or this weekend. I'm sorry but it ticks me off.  They can see their boyfriends just about whenever they want & they can call and talk to him every night. They're not waiting and wondering when they'll get another letter or when he'll have leave and if they'll see him soon. It makes me mad because they don't know how hard it is to do what we're doing!

missmytoughguy missmytoughguy
18-21, F
8 Responses Feb 23, 2010

I'll probably end up going to both. Just because his AIT alone is for 39 weeks so if I don't go to his basic graduation then I'd be going 48 weeks without seeing him.<br />
Awh! that's so sweet.

exactly! i love him so there's nothing sorry about it. and honestly i would miss prom for graduation too! are you going to AIT graduation or just basic? Mine told me hed rather me wait and go to AIT and then i can bring him home with me from there in JUNE!

Yeah I know what you mean. Some of my friends do the same thing and then they go I'm so sorry, I feel bad and they ALWAYS ask are you ok or how are you doing?. It gets annoying because just like you I don't want people to feel sorry for me. There's no reason to be sorry. I choose to stay with him because he means so much to me. <br />
I wish I was going to prom, but prom is the same week as Joe's graduation so I'm going to it. It's so much better than going to prom.

OMG!! my best friend was complaining because she was going to look for prom dresses this weekend and wasnt going to see her bf for two days and she broke down in tears(they have been together 5months). but i just kept my mouth shut because when i told her that my soldier left she said "aw" and made a lil pouty face and thats it but im not asking for any one to feel sorry for me i just expected her to kind of talk to me about it lol i mean hello best friend? <br />
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i know what you mean girl! real crazy stuff..

Trust me! I completely understand what you mean!!! I just don't tell anyone or vent to people anymore. Because half the time I get the answer of "You chose to do this." Uhm... NO. I chose to stay by my boyfriends side as he followed his dreams. And I couldn't change it for the world! But I just wished they could understand. However, they choose not to! So whatever. Stay strong girly because there is no one stronger than a military girlfriend! Oh! And funny story. Haha. I was waiting for one of my classes to start one time and I was wearing my "Proud Army Girlfriend" t-shirt. A girl in my class askeed me "Is your boyfriend in the army?' I wanted to be like NO! Lol. Just kidding! It was funny though. She went on to say that she doesn't know how I do it. Blah blah blah. All the typical stuff we hear all the time. But what they don't understand is that we just do! We love our guys. We don't have a choice! Feel free to message me anytime girly. I'm always here for you.

AMEN!!!!

Its common for people to take this stuff for granted like talking to them everyday and whatnot. This is what makes us stronger than everyone else. When I see people talking about being with their lovers I think that I must be an amazing person to sacrifice my time with him so that he can go and learn and train to be the one who lets them keep their free time like that. Its hard and it is annoying and anytime I see a guy in ACU's I cringe because its not my love. But don't look as if its a bad thing. Look as if its a blessing because You know better than to take for granted the love you have. You are given something great, a man who is doing well. Good love is missing someone and wanting them there, but strong love is being able to get through any hard spots and getting something positive out of it. And dont forget, you arent alone.

Its common for people to take this stuff for granted like talking to them everyday and whatnot. This is what makes us stronger than everyone else. When I see people talking about being with their lovers I think that I must be an amazing person to sacrifice my time with him so that he can go and learn and train to be the one who lets them keep their free time like that. Its hard and it is annoying and anytime I see a guy in ACU's I cringe because its not my love. But don't look as if its a bad thing. Look as if its a blessing because You know better than to take for granted the love you have. You are given something great, a man who is doing well. Good love is missing someone and wanting them there, but strong love is being able to get through any hard spots and getting something positive out of it. And dont forget, you arent alone.