Does Any Army Girls Feel This Way Too?

Hey army girls! Here  i am on a friday night with the oppurtunity to go out and dance drink, etc... Well to be honest I have not wanted to go out and do such things in a long time! My baby/boyfriend has been overseas for the past 7 1/2 months and we get to finally spend r & r together in florida in three more weeks!!!!!!!!!!! SO EXCITED! LOL for some reason i just have not felt up to going out to the club and dancing and stuff, i dont feel the desire to go out and have other guys rubbing up against me on the dance floor or trying to get my number while im in the club... I dont know if this has anything to do with this but the club i go to is the club where me and my future hubby met at in 2007 and maybe that has something to do with me not caring to go out! ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT IS HOW INCREDIBLE ITS GOING TO FEEL IN JUST THREE MORE WEEKS I GET TO ACTUALLY TOUCH HIM, KISS HIM, C HIM NOT ON SKYPE LOL!!!! I COULD JUST CRY THINKING ABOUT HOW BAD I WANT HIM BOTH PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY!!!! I havent been much of a partier because i dont have alot of close friends with whom i could go out with, I am a laid back type who does like to have some wild fun every now and then... but when i do get the chance to go out lately i just dont want to! I WANT HIM!!!!! I JUST WANT HIM TO BE THERE IN THE CLUB WITH ME AND GO WITH HIM! WELL GIRLS I JUST WANTED TO KNOW IF ANYONE ELSE FEELS THIS WAY SOMETIMES... LEAVE YOUR COMMENTS PLZ! = )

danbriars08 danbriars08
18-21
6 Responses Mar 12, 2010

i made plans to go out tomorrow night with some friend to a birthday party, i dont have a lot of girlfriends most of my friends are guys lol but hopefully they will be there tomorrow night and hopefully i can keep my mind occupied. i'm chatting with my man now on aim, no matter what he says i always smile when i hear from him :o)

@ mrs evil- i know what you mean girl sometimes i will visit his family and ill even picture him there with me, and i used to take a class with his best friend at school, i have to say it was nice even being around his very best friend becus it made me feel warmer... lol its hard for people to understand what we go through unless they are in it too...you might eventually feel better about going out if he wants you to have fun ya know... best thing you could do is find a group of girls/single or with no boyfriends with them and all go out together so that way you dont feel left out! talk to me anytime = )

@ mrs evil- i know what you mean girl sometimes i will visit his family and ill even picture him there with me, and i used to take a class with his best friend at school, i have to say it was nice even being around his very best friend becus it made me feel warmer... lol its hard for people to understand what we go through unless they are in it too...you might eventually feel better about going out if he wants you to have fun ya know... best thing you could do is find a group of girls/single or with no boyfriends with them and all go out together so that way you dont feel left out! talk to me anytime = )

@ Tatiana- yea girl well do enjoy the time you two do get together before he leaves... there is nothing like a deployment and no one really understands unless they are in the same situation... but yea i just havent cared a bit to go to the club that i once used to love but i think alot of it has to do with us meeting eachother there, and when im in the club all i want is him holding on to my waist so these other stupid guys dont talk to me... lol well im just so terribly anxious to c him , at least its only three more weeks and ill feel better! = ) talk to me any time u like girl!

i totally know how you feel... my boyfriend is stationed in Kansas and i'm in Philadelphia... i hung out with his best friend last night and all i wanted to do was hear his voice. i tried again tonight to go out and have fun with my sister and our friends and i couldn't enjoy myself. we left early and i've been online reading other people's stories about missing their army men since i got home. i used to be the girl who was at the club 3 nights a week. i came to know all the bouncers that work at the club and they always complain now that i never come visit them, they just don't understand that i just don't want to be anywhere that my man isn't. i miss him terribly

I know what you mean. I mean my boyfriend hasn't even left yet for basic training but to me (I'm going to be 19) I don't feel like going dancing or party or being around another guy but him. <br />
You are not the only one. We seem to be very similar. I mean I only have 1 really good friend but she has a little girl on the way. and idk i just understand you. <br />
I guess when you stop to think about it nothing really seems so important when he isn't there to share it with you.<br />
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Do i make any sense???<br />
Write back please