So, anyone who's read my last story knows Evan and I are considering having a baby. Well, it was brought up by some of my friends and they decided to gang up on me so to speak and all tell me if we were to do so that I would be "missing out on so much", to tell me that i "don't know what it's like to raise a child" or what I'd be "getting myself into" and that I would be "ruining" my life. I'm not even a mother, nor have I decided on deffinitely being so yet and this insults me. They don't know how Evan and I love each other, they don't even understand us getting married at such a young age. I do understand quite a bit of what I'd be getting into, and I helped my mother raise my baby sister since I was 7, my father was always too drunk to be a parent, so I had to step up. I understand it's not quite the same, but it's helped, and it's a big part of why I am really motherly. I wouldn't be missing out on much, because I plan on still going to school if I am, and I'm fine with not doing sports my first year. I know Evan wouldn't be home for a while because of his deployments, but he could come home for the baby's birth and a few months after I'd have the baby he'd be coming home and then I'd be going to Germany with him. I have more support than most girls my age would. I don't care if I'm young, I wouldn't be a bad mother, and that child would have such a wonderful life, he or she would make my life that much better. I don't know what this means really, but I just had to vent.