A Lonely Wife
I feel so lonely and depressed. I have been married for 7 years, i have never really been happy in my relationship with my husband. First of all we only knew one another for a month before we got married. I don't really know why i married him, i guess just to get away from my problems. My husband is on disability. we have two kids and one on the way. All my husband does all day is play video games. we never spend time with one another, we haven't had sex in almost two months. he cares more about his video game then his family. i do everything, i spend time with the kids, help them with homework and cook, clean while he lays on his butt all day. He isn't that disabled because he works on cars and can do various odd jobs. he is just lazy. We don't even sleep together. we haven't slept together for almost two years. i am to the point where i don't care anymore. i have never had a emotional or physical connection to him. i have distanced myself from him. He doesn't see anything wrong with our marriage. I want out of our marriage, however i don't want the kids to be away from there father. Also i live four hours away from my family and i asked him if we could move to my hometown and he says when his mom dies we can think about moving. I see that as so unfair. i need help on what i should do in this situation. does anyone think there is hope in saving this marriage?