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I Am a Very Lonely Wife

So Lonely

By: Mrslonely2010
Written on February 12th, 2013
My husband and I been together for 10 years but been married 2 yrs. We started off so good and he had a twinkle in his eyes when he would see me. He treats me well sometimes and spend time with me, but lately he been pulling back from me and I know he is not cheating its........... I don't know I think we are growing apart. I tell him I am lonely but it seems to go from one ear throughout the other. I just miss the old us. I know I shouldn't dwell in the past, but that is the only thing that have me staying.. Usually, I would just leave if I am not happy but we took vows and I know we haven't been married long; but I am craving for some passion some excitement. I just want him to have a twinkle in his eyes when he see me. We can be together but not really together if some of you ladies know what I mean. I am very tempted on going find the attention somewhere else but I don't want to commit adultery.
By: Mrslonely2010
Age: 26-30 , Female
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  • dancingintherain12
    dancingintherain12

    Do you still go on dates? It will help you grow closer. My parents have been married for 24 years and they go on at least one date a week. It's not always something fancy and extravagant. Just to make sure they have at least one time a week to be together, and to be involved in their relationship. Go on a walk together. Go out to dinner. Just spend time together holding hands and talking.

    Feb 12
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  • DanCan1
    DanCan1

    Sad to hear that you are feeling so lonely. I'm here to listen and talk if you like.

    Feb 12
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  • SlickFX
    SlickFX

    I feel very closely to the same although kind if different. We've been married 10 years and she is my best friend. Before marriage we were physically together several times a week. Literally the moment we got married it dropped off. I've begged pleaded and tried to do anything possible to find out why. She just isn't that way now. I've grown to accept it. Although I feel a physical relationship is important it is not that important to split. In any case I did find EP. I like coming on here. Reading to get aroused and finding someone to chat with sometimes. Is it cheating. Probably. I've justified (or just made an excuse to myself) that it is okay cause I still crave the feeling of being wanted. But I would never take things offline. That's not in me and couldn't do that to her

    Feb 12
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