My Privacy Is Very Important To Me

Like you for what you are, BB!! :)

I thought I'd already responded to this, but alas I hadn't.

I'm very similar. For my job, I'm very extroverted and need to be when in the public eye. However come my time, I could quite happily lounge around the house, plod in the garden, or do nothing.

I don't like to go out, don't like crowds.

I enjoy my privacy and my "me time".

would love to be your firned though as I am the same way !! EP is a secret for me and I dunno just seen you around the site alot so we must have something in common right ??

This just made me more curious, but Id be delighted to answer any queation have for me.

Its the Brit in you my dear, you can take the lass out of britain, but you cant take the Brit out of the lass.

Same here, though there is plenty I let be known, there is more I don't right off the bat.

I can totally relate. I'm a bit hesitant in revealing too much about my personal life. I have to get to know someone first. There are a lot of stories I could write, but whether i'll open myself up, I don;t know quite yet.

Hello! just go with the flow, less is more in my experience. just go with your gut feeling what you want to divulge, you are a real lady. love having you in my circle. T

hello id love to be in your circle. please consider adding me thank you.

I also like to be private and only like share views with only those friends who are like minded

I agree, i dont share alot of personal things either. just a one dimensional view on some experiences that is only a small part of who i am as a person ! yet , if you want to share some personal things? it is rather annonomous here. so vent if you desire. peter

You sound like a very sweet person. I would say to try to open up and love a little. Life is too short to stay in a shell

does that make you any different to everyone else or is that I think the same as you do

Quite right to take care, but your privacy settings here on EP are preventing other members from contacting you (whiteboard & messages) so how can we chat with each other? Only way is for you to either change your settings or add me as a friend & join my circle :-)

Yes I totally understand this. I only open up when I get to know someone.

I am a private person too, and it completely seems to backfire on me.

I am agree with you!!! but sometimes you need to share out something rite?

could we chat Ma'am?

well said

would you like to get to know me?

Extraverts are generally reserved, their confidence does not need boosting whilst intraverts like myself feel the need to be effusive and ebullient, often impulsive with a desire for popularity. I feel sure the special qualities I have surmised in you thus far, will emerge when the time is appropriate.

I'm the same way. Theres no harm in being cautious.your personal life is your business and what you chose to share here or anywhere else is totally up tonnyou

Bornabrit, I empathize with your prioritization of privacy. At least to me, when an acquaintance has matured sufficiently that the other finally entrusts me with his/her confidence, I always feel both humbled and gifted.

I understand exactly what you mean :)

Yes, we needed to know about black lace, very natural to get full imagination. Works great with red hair and great figure.

I could learn from you, but I am an introvert, unless I know the subject matter.

Yes, I can often be the same way! (Though I am not outgoing.)

I understand this. In many respects I am quite outgoing, but I value my privacy and do not discuss my personal life for the most part here. Good for you for being clear where you stand on this :-)

EP is a place where I can let parts of me show, and not others. And the personal stories I share are ones I wouldn't necessarily share with people who know me in "real life." I treasure the mix of familiarity and anonymity. It's just what I need sometimes. I have no doubt that you have a fascinating life. And I'll look forward to learning as much as you care to share. But if you prefer not to, I understand, and I can see many reasons why you'd keep private this way. I'll still love to see the questions you ask!

Solitude is absolutely necessary in my opinion!This is the "ME TIME" which we need to recharge ourselves and understand who we are.............where we are going.............what we want to do with our lives................!On the contrary loneliness sucks! There is absolutely nothing wrong in what you said in my opinion! :)

Well that is okay,you have but time to open up and share when you are ready.I also ask lots of questions but I am open and very extroverted in all aspects of my life.

Thanks for sharing this about you Bornabrit!