I Miss Out Because I Don't Ask For What I Want

I have always loved sex, sexual touching, and *******. I am very open to trying new things and I enjoy virtually every sexual activity that I have tried. Yes, I even enjoy anal sex. I often hesitate to initiate sex with other people, even my husband. When we are having sex, too often I don't ask for what I want or do what I want to do. I tend to let the other person lead and take the responsibility for what we do. I have become good at hinting, letting myself be seduced or approached for sex when I want it but am too shy to reach out to them myself. The trade off is that I tend to be very open to other people's advances and their ideas of what we should do.  Being swept away can be fun. I think I play the submissive in order to get what I want in the way of sexual frequency and sexual adventure.
CarolH66 CarolH66
36-40, F
1 Response Dec 9, 2012

I have difficulty approaching people for sex, in general I don't go after people.