Well first off I'm a man. So I am really into this woman, and it was our fourth date. It's the summer so she's seen my scars. I finally told her that they are from being a victim of domestic abuse, and she wont talk to me. WTF? I don't know what to say or do. I am sooo sad now. I thought it would bring us closer, me being open and honest with something so personal and sharing it with her. Instead she asked what did I do and then went cold and silent. Said she needs time to think about it (how to break up with me, obviously).