So I was with this man for over 5 years.... I married him August 16, 2007. I left for my honeymoon literally the day after my wedding to Hawaii. Well, two weeks after we got back the name calling started.. Your fat... you don't do it for me anymore... etc... Just things to hurt me... He would let me cry for hours in my room by myself with no remorse. That killed me!!! He did have a lot of really sweet and loving moments, but the bad started to take over the good. Anyways, I don't mean to go on and on. Shortly after the physical started. Keep in mind in 5'2 115lb and he's 6'0 220 totally built... He is no compititon when it comes to physical...Did I mention 7 years in the military. I'm tough, but not that tough. Well, Here's just a few things.... He broke my finger, almost broke my ribs, punched me as hard as could, shoved me, etc... the list goes on....... I finally kicked him out and he's been gone since October 2008. I am still in so much pain... He wants me back but I've stood my ground. I am still in sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much pain. So back to the title...................WHAT NOW??????!!! If anyone has any advise please send it my way. I neeeeeeeeeeed it.