In The Midst Of Getting OutMy husband of 10 years is a functioning alcoholic emotional abused. My 16 year old son and I
are the recipients. He's so selfish and controlling. The alcohol makes it 100 times worse because
he is irrational on top of everything else.
He has always been loud, degrading and belittling but one very drunk day a couple of months
ago he jumped on my son. Over absolutely nothing! He got physical so I called the police and had
locked up. I told him I want a divorce. He's being "ok " about it most of the time. I'm buying him out
Of the house. He has another house to go to. We both have a credit card with around $4000. 401k are
Equal.I make slightly more money.
I have no credit so have a hard time getting a loan. Finally found one. He won't leave tip I give him money.
I found out 2 days ago that he spent every bit of our income tax return paying off his credit card. I'm trying
To stay calm but getting angrier and angrier! I've been taking anti depressants and they work!!!
Now he's working on my piece of crape car to make himself feel better. He has 2 autos in better shape than
my car. Gave me the credit card to get new tires. I know this is only for him. Why do I let it bother me?