I Am a Victim of Emotional Abuse
I Had To Beg For Everything, Now I Have A Job And He Is Going Crazy
By:
willthisend
Written on April 30th, 2012
I just got a part time work from home job where I get $100 a week, and my husband is freaking out
this is my first job in the two and a half years we have been married and he is losing it.
before if I needed something I had to ask him and it was awful. when my hair dryer broke last winter I asked him to buy me a new one while we were shopping (I made sure to pick the cheapest one) and he flipped out on me, he called me selfish and said I didn't need it, he said if I made him spend $9 on that hair dryer he wouldn't be able to get his $30 video game. he threw all the stuff out the cart and would speak to me for days.
one evening we were leaving my mother's house and I asked if we could get fast food because It was so late if I cooked we would not eat until midnight, and he actually made me beg, I dint even realize I was begging until I saw my mother's shocked face. I was so embarrassed and hurt. but what bothered me the most was he was enjoying it, he was actually smiling and kinda laughing at me begging for a burger.
I soon realized I have to beg for everything and it makes me sick
when i finally got this job I was so excited because I can at least get some diapers for my baby without having to gravel or some sanitary napkins when Im on my period without having to convince him that I need them. but most of all I thought at least now he will leave me alone about me costing him so much money because I wont have to ask him for any, boy was i wrong
every week he wants me to give him a complete list of what I spent the money on and now he is saying that $400 a month is way too much for me to have and he wants be to start giving him my money as soon as I get paid so he can save it HE MUST BE CRAZY!!!
there is no way I can go back to that, but if I don't give over the money I think I will be facing some really tough times
this is my first job in the two and a half years we have been married and he is losing it.
before if I needed something I had to ask him and it was awful. when my hair dryer broke last winter I asked him to buy me a new one while we were shopping (I made sure to pick the cheapest one) and he flipped out on me, he called me selfish and said I didn't need it, he said if I made him spend $9 on that hair dryer he wouldn't be able to get his $30 video game. he threw all the stuff out the cart and would speak to me for days.
one evening we were leaving my mother's house and I asked if we could get fast food because It was so late if I cooked we would not eat until midnight, and he actually made me beg, I dint even realize I was begging until I saw my mother's shocked face. I was so embarrassed and hurt. but what bothered me the most was he was enjoying it, he was actually smiling and kinda laughing at me begging for a burger.
I soon realized I have to beg for everything and it makes me sick
when i finally got this job I was so excited because I can at least get some diapers for my baby without having to gravel or some sanitary napkins when Im on my period without having to convince him that I need them. but most of all I thought at least now he will leave me alone about me costing him so much money because I wont have to ask him for any, boy was i wrong
every week he wants me to give him a complete list of what I spent the money on and now he is saying that $400 a month is way too much for me to have and he wants be to start giving him my money as soon as I get paid so he can save it HE MUST BE CRAZY!!!
there is no way I can go back to that, but if I don't give over the money I think I will be facing some really tough times
By:
willthisend
Age:
22-25
