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I Am a Victim of Verbal Abuse

Why Me!!!

By: Rejection
Written on February 7th, 2013
I'm the oldest of my siblings. I'm my mother only daughter and i have 3 brothers under me. On my father side of 2 sisters. I always felt like the outcast of my family. They all treat me so sadly. When I was a young girl my mother use to always call me nasty names, and always favor my brothers over me and that really hurt my bady, sometimes at the age of 7 I felt runnibg away and never coming home. Coming up as a teenager I use to get bully and tease from school mates, they use to call me names like turtle, throw things at me. I reach out to my mother and told her that I was getting treated in school. Her reply was GROW UP AND STOP ACTING LIKE A CRY BABY! My dad he was always drunk I couldn't talk to him. My silbings were too young to talk to they wouldn't understand. Age 15 my mother kick me out off her house, I was getting in and out of relationship trying to seek for love and attention. Some boyfriends understood me and some abuse me. Now i'm in my 35 I'm still going threw the verbal abuse from my family. Sometimes I feel why was i born. WHY ME!!!!!!!!!!
By: Rejection
Age: 31-35 , Female
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    I'm so sorry your family mistreated you. Just because they are your family does not mean you have to spend time with them. Make your peace with the past as best as you can....forgive them for their actions, and try to move on with life. As much as you'd like for them to change their behavior towards you, it won't happen unless they acknowledge there is a problem....and if the family is content with the way things are, I doubt they'll make any changes. Despite how they treat you, I hope you have learned along the way to treat others with respect. I know it can be difficult to be a model citizen when the environment you come from is dysfunction, but you can rise above it all and be a better person.

    I hope you have many friends you can lean on, they become like family over a period of time. “Friends are the family we choose for ourselves” -Edna Buchanan

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