At 23, Im Still A Virgin.
I have mixed feelings about my virginity. I am glad that I didn't just throw it away to some random guy. But I am also annoyed and embarrassed that I am still a virgin. Basically the main reason that I still am is the complete lack of opportunity. I am not the most outgoing or confident person, and this has lead me to a life of loneliness. I have never once been hit on or asked out. Thus I am still a virgin. I know that this is the 21st century and it is socially acceptable for a female to take the initiative and "make the first move" but due to my lack of self confidence and extreme shyness, I find this utterly impossible. I know that I am never going to just throw it away, I want a relationship first... but I feel awkward even attempting to start a relationship when everyone I know is sexually active and feel like the "freaky virgin". It is intimidating.