People Never Believe It

I have never had sex even though there have been a couple times where it could have happened. Both times, it would have never been anything but a fling or one night stand (I was approached, I did not approach). That, however, is not what I want in a relationship. If ever I tell someone, all just assume I am a player or simply not believe me. I know I am only human and have urges just as any other person would have. Nonetheless, I want to know what it's like to be in love having never felt it before. I know that having sex doesn't mean one's in love and being in love doesn't necessarily mean having sex.
asert12345678 asert12345678
31-35, M
2 Responses Apr 21, 2012

I am a virgin too and all my friends are not, sometimes I wonder if that makes me weird, I have not even had a real relationship, I have only date three times, when I was 10, 14, and 15, and none of those kid relationships lasted for more than 2 weeks....

People (mainly my new friends) always bring up sex and whenever they ask me, they say "what?! Pure a virgin!?!?! I would've never guessed!!" and I am a virgin. I hate the fact that I "look like a **** and not a virgin". I'm perfectly fine being a virgin. I just know that I'm going to lose my virginity soon but not now.