Some people think that I'm frigid or somehow ****** up for not wanting to have sex. I encounter this attitude especially when I tell people that I want to wait until I am in a committed relationship to have sex. Why do I want to wait? Because I don't share my body with people I do not trust. I encounter such backlash against this idea when I express it. Even some fellow feminists view my approach as "sex-negative". What entitles a passing man to enjoy my body against my own comfort? Why is not wanting a one-night-stand "strange" and "sex negative"?