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Where No Man Has Gone Before.

I am 23 years young...and a virgin. It's definitely not a subject I enjoy talking about. When people find this out about a person they stereotype them as a prude, someone that's confused, or a loser. I'm none of those things. Being a virgin doesn't define who I am, it's just another characteristic, among many others, about me. I have been in situations where I could have easily changed this status, but chose not to because I knew I would regret it. I want the first person I have sex with to feel special. I waited for them. Someone once told me that a girl loses her value when she lies down with a man. Well, I guess I like having all my value. Some times I wish I could just get it over with, but it will happen sooner or later. For now, I'll just continue living life. =)
TexasGirl512 TexasGirl512 22-25, F 49 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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your body and virginity is not really part of your being , your mind . You could had an virginity amnesia. I know people of both sexes who even forgot that they had sex with particular person. What you really searching for is having regular sex .

Thats very cool, be proud!!!

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you should wait till you find the right guy unless you want to lose it now

All you can do id live lifr sooner or later you will find a guy or a guy will find you. till the day your no longer a virgin all you can do is live life and be happy

When you can only do some thing once it is not a bad thing to make sure that you do it right.

I would suggest it to anyone! It really is not as important as you would think. I agree that the person you loose your virginity to should be special. I do not think, however, that they need to be "the one". It's a fun expirience and I feel like once you do it, you might regret the fact that you didn't do it earlier!

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Way to go you! I'm in Texas, too, and I'm a virgin.
Several of my friends got pregnant in high school, and that scared me into not doing anything. I don't really talk about sex, but one advice I received from different people is to wait until I'm ready. I want to be completely in love with the man who takes my virginity.

I couldn't agree more especially about the first person feeling special as if they have recieved one of life's most precious gifts because in all actuality they have :) I value my virginity I consider it something sacred that I will not just give away to anybody. Congrats on recognizing and appreciating your value :)

I don't blame you for your choice. If anything I'll congatulate you for beeing true to yourself. But don't you belive it for a minute that you will lose value if you decide to enjoy yourself in a sexual way. Women have a right to enjoy their sexuality without beeing degraded or judged for it, it's your body and you have a right to enjoy it.

You are rare and special. Take all the tine you want, There will always be a herd of guys that want to be the first. You can fall in love first and have sex with some one that loves you.

i wouldnt make fun if anyone for being a virgin. i myslef am not and proud of it.

So am I, I understand what it feels like to be made fun of and want to get it over with.

I like the TX flag in your picture! =)

Thanks :)

coudnt have agreed with you more . Hope you find someone special soon.

There is nothing wrong with being a Virgin. Don't let anyone making fun of that get to you. Just remember that shows you are stronger than them and they are jealous.

Marry me !

Can I be your first

I liked the title lol

Haha! Thanks!

You are like a flawless emerald cut diamond! Rare and so beautiful, I admire you for what you have done, or should I say not done.

Good story, I can definitely relate

I'll echo the sentiment that there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. The only person who has any right to care about what gets put in where, with whom and when is you.

Having said that, women aren't cars - they don't depreciate when you drive them off the lot. Sex can be special, but it's also fun when it's done right and it's a natural part of life. Special sex can also happen anytime, not just the first time.

I suppose my unsolicited advice is that if it feels right, go ahead.

Nothing wrong with that at all.

Your find your superman some day. When you do his xray vision will see your heart,and that all that maters. Love sweet love.

Nothing wrong with being a virgin, more power to you !

i would hit that.

There's nothing wrong with that. That's is very awe-inspiring.

Nice story. However I do finding insulting that someone would say when a girl lies down with a man she loses her value, as if he's a bad thing to lie with.

Thanks, honestly wen he said it, he wasn't trying to be insulting. I don't know quite how to explain it. I personally feel like your "value" decreases with everyone you sleep with. It's like supply and demand....if everyone is getting it from you, it's not worth much. That's just me.

I would agree with that. It's funny because I recently wrote a story talking about how I think it tends to be fiction that women can get sex easier than men like a lot of people think. I was saying in the post that I think women like imagining this as their way of actually countering the very real fact that for a lot of men they really have had little or no difficulty in obtaining sex from a woman. They don't like to be thought of as "easy" or bootycalls so they try to counter the fact that a lot of women really have been this to seem like they're the ones with the sexual advantages or something. I've talked about this with quite a few women and they've said they agree.

A lot of women have sex with men to keep them interested. It's sad, but true. Most women have sex with men because they simply enjoy it. I think it's fine to have sex often, but I would suggest it be with the same man. Maybe I'm old fashion. lol

I don't think you're old fashioned. Most women have sex with men because they genuinely want to.

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I can understand your thinking as someone in need of a deep emotional connection...

i admire you for your honesty, you are a kind beautiful young lady, hold strong to your values, many men would love to be your guy