Developing Myself :)Personally I feel very uncomfortable with the way is sex is portreyed to girls my age and younger. It is seen as something a girl will do to get a guy to like her or to be socially accepted. Yes the pleasure of the act is present, but the way it was obtained is often very unsavoury. Drunk girls of 14 giving out handjobs does not strike me as a good thing.
My own approach to sex has developed over the last few years. I have learnt about my own sexuality and sexual orientation and have reached the stage where I am physically and mentally ready for sex. But emotionally I am still looking for the right person. There has only been one guy so far I have genuinely considered but I won't be seeing him for a few years now so right now I am content being a virgin. :)