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I Am a Virgin

People Are So Judgmental.

By: nonnibe
Written on November 11th, 2012
By: nonnibe
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • Speed61

    I So Agree with you! And you took the words right out my mouth! but Well Said!

    7 hours ago
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  • bblahb

    i wish more women thought like you. people are so glamour obsessed. i'm a 22 y/o virgin, simply haven't met anyone i really give a **** about

    10 hours ago
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  • bblahb

    i wish more women thought like you. people are so glamour obsessed. i'm a 22 y/o virgin, simply haven't met anyone i really give a **** about

    10 hours ago
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  • Tien101

    I'm feeling Special Already :)

    1 day ago
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  • Husky1011

    you're so smart! I adore ur intelligence! btw, for asians.. Most of them are still virgin when they're 18

    1 day ago
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  • JoeSoapus

    Yes. It's all about controlling your own space, being respected, respectful and tolerant.

    2 days ago
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    • nonnibe

      well said:)

      1 day ago
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  • Joe24dirt

    I admire your thoughts! it is tuff I know

    3 days ago
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    • nonnibe

      thanks! and yes, tough indeed

      1 day ago
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  • indianameat

    nothing wrong with that i was alot older my first time.

    May 16
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  • TheLonelyViolin

    Aww thank you :))))
    Very good story and besides, sex to me is so special it can wait.

    May 2
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    • nonnibe

      thanks for your kind words! yes, it is special. cherish every moment of it. till then, be patient. im sure you wont regret it:)

      2 days ago
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  • lipstick26

    I lost my virginity when i was 18 to my now wonderful husband! He is my one and only and i wouldnt change it for the world. Youll know when its the right time for you.

    May 2
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  • Alotonmymind

    I know what you mean. People don't believe that I am a virgin because of my 'Looks'. Which is pretty deceiving

    Apr 20
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  • crazyn3030

    You are a good woman. Your future husband will truly be blessed.

    Apr 20
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    • nonnibe

      thankyou for your lovely words:)

      2 days ago
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  • plunderbunny

    I personally think sex is something special to be enjoyed with someone you care about. I've only slept with three women. One is my wife, and I'm still in relative daily contact (Facebook and occasionally we run into each other at the store or what not) with the other two. They are special people to me, with or without virginity. As a 28 yr old man, I'm expected to sleep with anything with a pulse, but that'll never happen. For the record, I lost mine at 15. Being young does not make sex a non special moment. Just remember that regardless where life takes you, that your partners were special; as special as your, now gone, virginity.

    Apr 20
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  • experience1226

    u r absolutely right nonnibe.

    Apr 19
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  • aria768

    i myself am a virgin and im 19 and plan to wait on marriage congrats because teens these days a hurry to grow up kudos to u and u are inspiration to girls your age all around the world

    Apr 19
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  • Mythriel

    You're doing great... I lost mine at 22, and I can't truly regret it for all that I've learned from the experience and relationship (or what I thought was a relationship... idk if he was just taking advantage of me the whole time or not). I half-wish it was somebody else now... but I can only change what I will do, so I must take it slower next time.

    I don't think virginity should be lost... it should be given. Whether it's for religion, or your own morals, whether you give it in or out of marriage; whatever your choices, make sure it's something you're comfortable with, something you can live with. God bless. :)

    Apr 19
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  • blake9110

    nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age! Do what you are comfortable with don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to. if you want to remain a virgin then good for you. its a personal choice and one that you can never take back so only have sex when you are ready and with someone you are ready to do it with. it doesn't matter what anyone thinks be comfortable with yourself and remember only you know when the time will be right if ever for you. If you want to wait, then wait! Anyway with all the rampant disease around waiting is the safe way to be. maybe like the man who told you he is waiting at 35 to be married then good for him and when you get the marriage license you get tested for diseases at least where i am and you know your partner will be safe. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.

    Apr 18
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  • silver1105

    If people don't like it, too bad. There is only one judge and those who would scrutinize are not he.

    Apr 8
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  • faiz2001me

    one question please do you mastribute?

    Apr 4
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  • Roets

    I love the way your mind works - good for you

    Apr 4
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  • cs6c321

    truly awesome Nonni !!!

    Mar 28
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    • nonnibe

      thank you so much

      Mar 28
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  • Aegea

    I lost mine at 22.

    Mar 17
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    • Mythriel

      So did I... And yet I can't regret it for all that it's taught me. Took me too long to finally realize he was taking advantage of me, though. :(

      Apr 19
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  • DaveBranham

    That's right, dear young lady. You are even still very young, so Please do not mind them.
    I am a virgin myself, and I am 35, my wedding is coming up in a few months time. I am getting married to a young lady of 27, who is also a virgin herself. Like you rightly said, every virgin is special. I am proud to be one, and I thank God for my fiancee. I personally believe that Virgins are good-news any day! God bless you.

    Mar 11
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    • nonnibe

      thanks dave. all the best with your wedding. and i assure you, all the wait will be worth it!

      Mar 28
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  • DorkDark

    This is so true :)

    Mar 5
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  • Army0917

    I was a virgin until I got married when I was 19, and since my ex left me I've abstained from sex as I've decided to do so until I marry again. I think the fact that you're a virgin is awesome, and everything you've said here is spot on.

    Thanks for sharing! :)

    Mar 2
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    • nonnibe

      thanks for your answer. i hope you find the right person this time :)

      Mar 28
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    • Army0917

      Thank you, I do too :)

      Mar 28
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  • ohdammit101

    Be proud. Making it to your age and still being pure is quite an accomplishment. You'll certainly not hear any ridicule from me. Personally i think virginity is taken for granted too easily these days. And i agree that humanities views on sex and looks all suck, and i believe social media is to blame. You can be the nicest person in the world but if you dont get like a B+ in the look department you dont get a second glance.

    Mar 2
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  • 22LOVESLIFE

    well done young lady, your a star,

    Feb 26
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    • nonnibe

      thankyou, appreciate it

      Mar 28
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  • Fr69

    Girl i lost my virginity with my high school sweet heart she was also a virgin.NOw we are married13 years and still going strong now we have 3 kids and 3 dogs that I love them all. You can hold out there is nothing wrong with that you are seeking love just like us. Please add me

    Feb 20
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  • GoGoGone

    I think it is great you have waited. I have never heard a girl say she waited to long for sexy but plenty said they wished they had waited longer. It takes a special girl to have enough respect for herself that she waits.

    Feb 15
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  • pocket5s

    Well said

    Feb 12
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