Still A Virgin...

Laugh at me, but I'm almost 29 and still a virgin... Thing is I'm not ugly but I've always been pretty fat. And being fat is worse than being ugly when it comes to finding love or at least sex!
I mean when I was in high school I could never find a boyfriend or something, so I just started to pretend that I didn't care and that there were much more important things in life than a romantic relationship, and as I grew older I started to believe it was true. But truth is that I'm really in need of finding someone to share certain things with (sex included)...
Ahhh... life's a ***** sometimes!
happybunny9000 happybunny9000
26-30, F
5 Responses Dec 4, 2012

you will find a guy soon. But yes life can be a ***** sometomes

do not worry.many peoples are same as you.keep hope.all go well with you.

Thanks a lot! (:

No one will laugh at you, don't worry. There are a lot of guys out there who don't care what you look like, and there must be one out there that's looking for you right now. Quite a few guys know they can't expect girls to be unhealthy stick-figures anyway, and that little roundness to you just means you're healthy, which is a very good thing. :)

Well, I do hope more people think like you! Thanks :)

You're welcome. :)

Aww dont be so hard on yourself & honestly i think its the other way around with the being ugly is better than fat -- you could easily lose the weight you just have to have the motivation and believe in yourself that you could do it & theres plenty of men out there you just havent found the right one. :)

That's what I'm trying, I've lost almost 30 pounds so far!! :D

Oh yaay see , good for you! :) Keep up the good work!

Yup! I mean, long way to go, but I won't surrender so easily! :D

If you keep reaching out to people I'm sure you'll find someone. Maybe get a new hobby or ask friends to introduce you to guys, or try online dating if you dare. The good news is because you've waited a long time, that will make it all the more sweet when it does happen. So make it count someday when it happens for you, and don't lose confidence cause hey, you have many years ahead to find sex and more importantly, love. Also if you love the way you look then others will start to as well, and my advice is go to new places, talk to new people, be friendly and smile. Good luck and wishing you the best =)

Thanks a lot! You're very sweet! :D