Everyone But Me...

i am going to be 25 this year, i am still a virgin... ive been in a few relationships but nothing lasts more than a couple months.. my longest relationship was when i was 17, which lasted just shy of a year... since then i havent really dated anyone since. i dated one girl but she ended up using me for my money and quickly left. then i was "seeing" a girl at my work. outside of work we acted like bf/gf but never got anywhere because we worked together. she no longer works with me and now we are no longer friends, that was almost 2 years ago...

what sucks is all of my friends i grew up with are all getting married and having kids. going to my friends weddings and seeing them have kids and being happy makes me feel like theres nothing for me. i am literally the only single person i know and to top it off, a virgin!! hell my cousins who are 8 years younger than me have had sex and are in more steady relationships than me....



seriously...WTF?! i seariously about to just give up completely...
lonefish88 lonefish88
22-25, M
2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

I completely understand what you are talking about! I am 26 now and I am not very religious and was never waiting for marriage but I am waiting to be with someone I feel comfortable with and love. I have always been too shy and insecure to date and now I feel like the window has passed me by. And now I feel like I have "freak" stamped on my forehead. All my friends are getting married and having kids and I am afraid I will not get to have that! I just really related to your post and wanted to let you know you are not alone. There is at least one other person with a similar experience :)

no rush dude, the right person will come. in the meantime, you should work on making ur life satisfying for yourself!