Bravo to you as a guy I do believe that a girl should be a virgin until she gets married, and I regret how our sex mad society works against it. I'm sure you'll make someone a wonderful wife and homemaker
there is a problem...your wedding night will be the most important night of yr life; you've a right to expect the night of your dreams. But sex is a learned activity and if yr husband was a virgin too you would end up terribly disappointed
There is also a problem. If girls should be a virgin until they get married, with whom can the men perfect his techniques before They get married? With married women? Haha. Well I think it would be even more beautiful if its the first time for both husband and wife. It shows that both know who deserve their precious gift. Something u can only give once in ur life time.
I love the beautiful simplicity of your statement. I gave me reasons for staying at virgin at http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-A-Virgin/2749351 and needed around 500 words! I hope you find someone worthy of you who will treat you right
That is a great perspective. Hold on to it. Sex is so emotional and bonds two people together. A marriage relationship is designed to fulfill every aspect of sex and intimacy.
Then I'll die a virgin. But dying is only the start of the afterlife. If not in this life, I sure will find him in the afterlife.
Ok that sure sounded so easy for me to say but it really isnt. If only u knew how hard im battling this emptiness feeling inside of me. But lonely or not, I will never give up my virginity to anyone but my husband.
I know that empty feeling , and that still happens after you marry. I know that you hold your virginity very dear to you, but those of us on the other side might tell you that it's not as big a deal as its made out to be. There will be far more important things to worry about later in life. I hope you are right about the afterlife... but what if there is nothing else, and this is all you get ?
:) im sure this isnt all there is. And yes I agree, there are far more important things in life than to worry about losing ur virginity ;) so why even make a big deal out of losing it n give unnecessary pressure to young girls?
Just keep in mind that even planning to save it for that special one can end up being a mistake. The person who looks like the one you are looking for can still end up being the wrong one after marriage. This you may find very disappointing.