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I Am a Virgin

Why Wouldnt I Be?

By: username64
Written on February 7th, 2013
Age: 26-30
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30 responses
  • BlueTheWarrior

    Nice resolution...women are NOT 'use and throw' materials!!

    Mar 3
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  • guyjustsurfin

    Bravo to you as a guy I do believe that a girl should be a virgin until she gets married, and I regret how our sex mad society works against it. I'm sure you'll make someone a wonderful wife and homemaker

    Mar 3
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    • username64

      Aww thank you. But shouldn't a guy too be a virgin till he gets married?

      Mar 3
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    • guyjustsurfin

      there is a problem...your wedding night will be the most important night of yr life; you've a right to expect the night of your dreams. But sex is a learned activity and if yr husband was a virgin too you would end up terribly disappointed

      Mar 8
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    • username64

      There is also a problem. If girls should be a virgin until they get married, with whom can the men perfect his techniques before They get married? With married women? Haha. Well I think it would be even more beautiful if its the first time for both husband and wife. It shows that both know who deserve their precious gift. Something u can only give once in ur life time.

      Mar 8
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  • ChrisMM7

    I'm turning 24 next month and i'm not having sex before marriage, i just hope that i find a girl that has the same thought.

    Feb 13
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    • username64

      Good for you ;) I hope we both find a suitable partner for ourselves :)

      Feb 13
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  • carolyn25

    I love the beautiful simplicity of your statement. I gave me reasons for staying at virgin at http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-A-Virgin/2749351
    and needed around 500 words! I hope you find someone worthy of you who will treat you right

    Feb 13
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  • SuriPokemon

    wow I support your point, my body for my future hubby lol

    Feb 13
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  • DanielRage

    That is a great perspective. Hold on to it. Sex is so emotional and bonds two people together. A marriage relationship is designed to fulfill every aspect of sex and intimacy.

    Feb 8
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    • username64

      True :) and what a shame to lose it to someone who wants no commitment with u ;)

      Feb 8
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  • naughtyguyfrompluto

    WOW!!!!!!! I wish every woman thought like that!!!! It is really very sad to see woman being used by a guy and then the guy leaving him.

    Feb 8
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    • username64

      thank you :) yeah i think so too.

      Feb 8
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  • bella222

    wooow,,,,i like u n i like ur topic ;)......keep dat attitude

    Feb 8
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  • happinesswinsxx

    This is a choice you made for yourself and that's great. Are you looking for validation on this choice ? Are you doubting making this choice ?

    Feb 8
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    • username64

      No im not doubting anything

      Feb 8
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    • happinesswinsxx

      That fine. Just not sure why you are saying this. I was not a virgin, neither was my husband. What if you never marry ?

      Feb 8
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    • username64

      Then I'll die a virgin. But dying is only the start of the afterlife. If not in this life, I sure will find him in the afterlife.

      Ok that sure sounded so easy for me to say but it really isnt. If only u knew how hard im battling this emptiness feeling inside of me. But lonely or not, I will never give up my virginity to anyone but my husband.

      Feb 8
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    • happinesswinsxx

      I know that empty feeling , and that still happens after you marry.
      I know that you hold your virginity very dear to you, but those of us on the other side might tell you that it's not as big a deal as its made out to be. There will be far more important things to worry about later in life. I hope you are right about the afterlife... but what if there is nothing else, and this is all you get ?

      Feb 8
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    • username64

      :) im sure this isnt all there is.
      And yes I agree, there are far more important things in life than to worry about losing ur virginity ;) so why even make a big deal out of losing it n give unnecessary pressure to young girls?

      Feb 8
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    • happinesswinsxx

      Just keep in mind that even planning to save it for that special one can end up being a mistake. The person who looks like the one you are looking for can still end up being the wrong one after marriage. This you may find very disappointing.

      Feb 8
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    • username64

      Well we can never know if someone is the right or wrong one for u. Im only saving myself for my husband ;)

      Feb 8
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    • happinesswinsxx

      I hope that he is the right one .

      Feb 8
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    • username64

      Thank you :) I hope so too..

      Feb 8
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  • Lonleyguy12

    He will be a lucky guy :)

    Feb 7
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