This is my story. I'm 33. I'm not completely innocent. But, I'm an all around virgin. I've never had intercourse in any way. Why? It's not that hard. When a guy wanted to, I didn't. I wasn't ready or didn't want that guy. When I was the one who was tempted, it's always been the other way around. So, I haven't been in a mutual situation. Also, I've expressed that I don't want sex without marriage. I would have to be in love and committed with one guy. We would have to be married or have every intent of doing so immediately. I fear the "with no strings attached" thing. That's not what I want at all. I want a more old fashioned situation and it just hasn't happened. I seek a biblical marriage and marriage bed. It's very hard to wait, though. This is something that, if you want it, it gets tougher with time. I've waited this long and I'm so frustrated.