Still a Virgin At 43
I used to worry about being so old and still being a virgin. I know how important it is to me. Sometimes I am really sad about it, but most of the time I wouldn't have it any other way. In a way, I still have a naive romantic side to me, waiting for my (old) prince charming to rescue me. At this point in my life, I just don't worry about it. I am proud of it. My friends know it and respect me for it. I grew up going to a catholic school from grade 1 thru 12. They always talked about the importance of saving yourself for your husband, although my junior and senior year, I think about one third of the girls were pregnant. I always wanted a reason to go on a honeymoon. If I am not a virgin, why have a honeymoon? That is just a vacation at that point. I can honestly say that I have never had an STD, never had to worry about being pregnant. I also think it is REALLY funny telling people I am a virgin. People just don't believe it anymore that a person can still be a virgin at my age. Well, Here I am - and proud of it!