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I Am 26...and Still A Virgin!

I AM 26 STILL A VIRGIN AND HORNY AS HELL LOL! IF YOU THINK THAT'S PATHETIC LISTEN TO THIS I HAVEN'T EVEN HAD MY FIRST KISS! I'VE ALWAYS BEEN A PLUS SIZE GIRL BUT A PRETTY ONE. AND I USED TO BE VERY CONFIDENT. I'VE ALWAYS SAID I WOULD WAIT UNTIL I WAS 22. DON'T KNOW WHY JUST DID. ANYWAY I'M AN ASPIRING SINGER/SONGWRITER AND I'VE ALWAYS FOCUSED ON THAT AND MY GOALS. BUT LATELY ALL MY GOALS SEEM UNREACHABLE AND MY CONFIDENCE IS COMPLETELY GONE AFTER ALL THE REJECTION, FINANCIAL PROBLEMS, AND FAMILY PROBLEMS. ON TOP OF THAT I HAVE GAINED A LOT MORE WEIGHT AND NOW I'M TO SELF CONSCIOUS TO REALLY DATE. SO I'VE TURNED INTO A HERMIT AND BOUGHT A VIBRATOR JUST TO TEASE THE AREA IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN LOL. BUT NOW I THINK I'M READY AND I'M TRYING TO GET LAID BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY (NEW YEAR'S EVE) DON'T WANNA BRING IN THE NEW YEAR TIGHT AND FRUSTRATED LOL! PRAY FOR ME

songwriter82 songwriter82 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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Im a plus size Virgin

I'm 25, and still a virgin, becuase I have Autism, poor social skills, and the girls who I'm attracted to are mostly mean and stuck-up. I'm also not skinny, and unfortunately, I'm attracted to skinny girls. The problem is that skinny girls where I live, hate fat guys.

On a positive note, I am saving it for my soul-mate, someone special, if they exist. I believe sex is sacred, and should not be shared with just anyone.

Im a 25 year old virgin to i want the right guy

Oh? I don't get it why being a virgin is an issue? I'm 26 and proud of it. And no, I don't feel horny at all... It's just a matter of keeping your mind occupied on other things. Believe I'm perfectly fine XD
I've been in a relationship once (because of the guy´s tiring insistence). Yah, I've been kissed, but I never let things go where I didn't want them to and well... I haven't been interested on dating. Friendship is all I am accepting from the men I know at the moment till the right guy comes :D

l have a similar experience as slowblackhole. I'm a 26 year old virgin (and ashamed to be) and always thought I was un-attractive growing up. The last few years I have been become much more aware of how good looking I truely am and I have developed a very nice sense of style. I'm now focusing on my health more than ever! I'm trying to develope that perfect beach body/tan before the summer comes back around and I am already having great results. I believe the number reason I am still a Virgin is, I was always very, VERY shy of girls and I still some what am. I'm learning how to be more open and am trying to talk to girls more now that I know how very good looking I truely am.<br />
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Oh, and like you, I have VERY HIGH sex drive! :) I just need to get over the whole shy thing :/

I'm 32 year old guy and I'm a virgin. and yes I'm really horny.<br />
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I used to be really unappealing, but I'm a late bloomer and now I'm finally a chick magnet, but my brain still behaves as if I'm unappealing. So I do a great job of sabotaging the many chances I have with hot girls who I would LOVE to have sex with.<br />
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I know that you know that you could lose weight by going to the gym. The question is, why haven't you? I'm not trying to get you mad,... I'm trying to do the same thing I'm doing to myself, which is challenging myself and facing these issues.<br />
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You obviously enjoy feeling horny and the thought of sex, and you know your chances go way up if you go to the gym... but are you doing what I'm doing?? Are you deliberately trying to sabotage your chances so that you won't have to face the fear of having sex with someone and being ridiculed for being an older virgin?<br />
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I know I'm doing that. If you aren't doing that, then I apologize. but if you ARE doing this, I ask you to please stop. I'm trying to realize that I only have one life and that I'm wasting it away because of the fear and shame of not measuring up to the perceived standards set by society.<br />
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So please, don't turn out like me...... because it doesn't get easier as you get older.

I am a 26 year old virgin as well. Though I had my first kiss at 25, I must admit that I sympathize with you wholeheartedly. It is so stressful being a virgin, and with a few added pounds to boot. But I will say that I like a girl with some pounds on her. I want to feel something when I grab. And I am extremely horny, but I want to wait to until marriage 'to do the do'. Still doesn't mean I would not mind a little foreplay, but even that is rather shallow, except with what I do to myself. lol. If you haven't lost your virginity yet, chat back. Maybe we can keep each other encouraged or at least vent the frustration. :D

thanks for the encouragement you're right good luck to us!!

i had mixed emotions reading this...first off i was empathizing with ur weight issues (i got 'em too!) and then i was laughing at ur "tease the area" comment! i think new year's eve is a lil too close for comfort...i guess if ur ready, ur ready....<br />
just be cautious! <br />
about the weight issue, it'll be a brand new year soon enough....wouldn't hurt to do things that helps you feel good now....perhaps devote some time each day to do cardio or go on a eat healthier challenge....i'm struggling too! good luck to the both of us!