My Wife

my wife died friday the 6th of feb.we were together for 38yrs.i am lost i don't know what to do. i am lonely i don't know how to cook,my wife always did those things.i have no one to talk to about how i feel.it just sucks

rickyticky002 rickyticky002
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5 Responses Feb 16, 2009

I was recommended a website to join to help with your loss - http://www.groww.com - Grief Recovery Online<br />
for All Bereaved<br />
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I discovered there are people who share their pain with your pain and it helped me in that I did not feel so alone, and I discovered there are so many of us who can support each other, understand the awful pain we are all experiencing. My heart goes out to you. <br />
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My husband of 34years did most of all the decorating around the house. He was a great carpenter and a great DIY, even electrics. I took so much for granted. Since my husband passed away I have had to deal with blown fuses, blocked drains, etc, but you know I felt him around me, guiding me and I am even now planning to do some painting and I know he will be right there beside me, guiding me. <br />
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My husband will dead now a year on 17th June 2009 and I miss him so very very much and would give anything to have him back, and at times I still do feel his energy around me. I know he is watching over me. <br />
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God Bless.

I'm not sure if I can be the person to help or not because my husband of 22years passed away Feb7,09.I still miss him greatly.But if you ever need some one to talk to I'm here.

Hey if you need any recipes just ask.Remember the wonderful times you had -some folks never marry ,or are happy <br />
God bless<br />
Ruthonly

Thank you for your comment it was good advice.I will try what you said but I have to admit it is still very lonely without her. Thanks Again

I totally understand how you feel. My wife of 15 years died Jan 8-she was my life. The days will get better. It just takes time to realize and I guess admit and accept that your life has changed enormously. The most helpful advice that I was given was to try to think of what she would want for you-how would she want you to live. I wish you the best-give yourself time and be good to yourself.