Became A Wittol 30 Years Ago

It has been 30 years now since my wife had an affair with a friend of ours. At first she kept her affair secret from me, after 6 months she confessed her secret to me. Our friend is married and his wife was very sick and couldn't have sex with her husband. My wife decided that she wanted to help him out during this troubling time and offered herself to take care of his sexual needs while his wife was sick.

It was over a year she was meeting him twice a week to take care of his needs. After my wife confessed to me I was so turned on by the idea of her being with him I  told her she should keep meeting him, but needed to tell me all the details of their  meetings.  She agreed and that was the beginning of a long line of men that she helped sexually when they had troubles like divorce, sickness, or wifes death.

For me it has been a wonderful marriage.

Nhcornuto1 Nhcornuto1
61-65, M
5 Responses Feb 11, 2010

Please add me.

My wife helped out a divorced friend for about 2 years. I knew and approved so they were very open and even included me every now and then.

My wife helped out a divorced friend for about 2 years. I knew and approved so they were very open and even included me every now and then.

A wittol is like a cuckhold, only real difference being the cuckold is either unknowing or unwilling, whereas the wittol is OK with his wife's 'extracurricular' activities. It's an old word, not widely used these days. Cuckold is typically used interchangeably with wittol, nowadays, though not strictly correctly.

No only do you have a very caring wife but you appear to be<br />
a compassionate man. Were that there were more like you;<br />
It would make for a much better world!