I Cannot Believe:When I met my husband at 20, Sex from the beginning was fantastic, we tried loads of things, we did it all the time, we had fun. I would never have thought that 26 years later I would be in this position. I expected when we married to argue over children, money, work, holidays, petty things, large things - I never, never thought I would be in this position: angsting over NO SEX in my marriage.
I don't believe there is any way that one can anticipate how a long marriage will pan out.
I cannot believe that most marriages are meant to last the long haul - especially when you see on EP how many unhappy, sexless marriages there are.
I cannot believe that I am having an affair to replace the sex and intimacy missing in my marriage. I am still astounded that I have actually done this.
I will try and believe in a HEA - how ever it works out.