I got married over 4 years ago. I got pregnant on my wedding night. After that, sex became very rare. The first year of our marriage; I could count on one hand how many times we had sex. I was really messed up about this because I loved sex prior to getting married. After the first two years, we decided to have another baby; I got pregnant after the first effort again. I thought we had gotten better but as of today it would be 3 months since we last had sex. I love my husband, but this is really tough. However, i have made myself accept this because i don't want to get a divorce. I am not sure i would rather be in a marriage with more sex; my marriage overall is good. i am just trying to cope with how it is and believe that in time one day we will have more sex. Maybe?