Im married and I love my husband, but I dont feel attracted to him. I hope it doesnt offend anyone but Im very horny and want to explore with a female. I have only been sexual with men, but have dreamed about a female. At times I hate myself for feeling this way and I try to block it out, but it doesnt last. I have read stories about women being intimate and I get so aroused. I need to figure this out. I think the female body is beautiful. I am a very fem. type woman, and butch types do nothing for me. Im glad I found this and its nice knowing that your not alone.
luckycharmsgirl luckycharmsgirl 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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Don't hate yourself for being honest about your feelings. It takes courage to do that. Trying to box up your thoughts and emotions, and keep a lid on them over time, takes a toll. You are doing the right thing by expressing and exploring. You owe it to yourself. And when you say you are not alone, you are absolutely right.

Believe me when I say my husband would NEVER go for that. I am here because its safe and I can and will explore my inner feelings.

One must decide if they are going to explore their inner feelings. If you do, I see no reason to share it with your husband. Sometimes a little deviation from the norm is good.