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I have recently been slowly and quite thoroughly seduced by a lesbian who is 12 years my senior, she is in the closet and she seems nice but she really is a heart breaker, I'm ******* wide open with no where to turn. I don't know what I am going to do. Why would someone her age be that damn immature, or maybe I was naive for trusting her. Can anyone offer some advice?
desirejules desirejules
22-25
6 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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I had to learn that age does not always tell you how mature a person is. Also, its not nice for someone to lead you own and play mind games. I learned this the hard way after spending 11 years with a game pla<x>yer. Honestly, you may not want to waste your youth on someone who is not out and not serious. There are a lot of younger women out there who are open and looking for a relationship. This is just my advice, however, in life we ultimately have to make our own decisions. <br />
Leaving the relationship might mean being single or alone for a little bit. Are there other benefits that you feel you would lose by leaving? Do you really want to end it? You sound like you are really into her, but kind of know on a level that she is playing and not really serious. Just don't get hurt.

Never been seduced by a senior lesbian like that, no. I have however flirted with a lesbian teacher of mine for quite some time. If she is that much older, and still in the closet...my suggestion to you would be to let her cool. If you are an open lesbian looking to live an out relationship, you should let her do her closet thing. Unless you're just in it for the perks. ;)<br />
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-LW

Move on. There are lots of lovely girls out there.