I Am a Young Military Girlfriend Or Wife
I'm so excited, tomorrow morning i'm leaving for Great Lakes. His graduation is Friday. I'm so incredibly excited, i'm feel like i won't be able to sleep until after Friday, lol. There's so many things that have gone wrong, like him getting switched to grad and go, and all of the issues that we're trying to work through with him being so far away, but right now, none of it matters. I am just so excited to see him. I'm so anxious and happy that boot camp is almost over that i feel like all of these problems don't matter, they'll work themselves out.
At times I start worrying again, but i'm really trying not to. It's just that his school is going to be 18 hours away from me. He's a nuke, and i hear that nuke school is so stressful and insane that he will barely have any time to talk to me. He wanted me to marry him and move with him right away, but i'm in college and my credits wouldn't transfer correctly. It would be wonderful and perfect if they would, but it just wouldn't work out that way. Now he's saying he still wants to get married, even if we're going to be apart. I'm trying not to be pessimistic, but i feel like if i did that, i would be being naive and setting myself up for disaster. He's so excited and positive about it, but i'm not sure he'll still be like that once he gets there. He already said he was worried about school...and he also said that he felt like he needed me there with him. I'm so torn right now, but like i said, trying to just think about how wonderful friday is going to be right now. And i'm also trying to find a way to go spend the summer with him but...there's just no where to stay. The only place i could think of was an extended stay hotel, but they're insanely expensive for the entire summer. So i don't know how to work that out...but i'm going to be positive this weekend, nothing is going to get me down. :)
Any other girls that have men graduating on Friday, i know you're just as excited and it's going to be wonderful. We made it!!! If anyone wants to meet up and say hi and stuff, just message me and let me know and i'll give you my cell number :)
I'll be updating again after graduation!!
At times I start worrying again, but i'm really trying not to. It's just that his school is going to be 18 hours away from me. He's a nuke, and i hear that nuke school is so stressful and insane that he will barely have any time to talk to me. He wanted me to marry him and move with him right away, but i'm in college and my credits wouldn't transfer correctly. It would be wonderful and perfect if they would, but it just wouldn't work out that way. Now he's saying he still wants to get married, even if we're going to be apart. I'm trying not to be pessimistic, but i feel like if i did that, i would be being naive and setting myself up for disaster. He's so excited and positive about it, but i'm not sure he'll still be like that once he gets there. He already said he was worried about school...and he also said that he felt like he needed me there with him. I'm so torn right now, but like i said, trying to just think about how wonderful friday is going to be right now. And i'm also trying to find a way to go spend the summer with him but...there's just no where to stay. The only place i could think of was an extended stay hotel, but they're insanely expensive for the entire summer. So i don't know how to work that out...but i'm going to be positive this weekend, nothing is going to get me down. :)
Any other girls that have men graduating on Friday, i know you're just as excited and it's going to be wonderful. We made it!!! If anyone wants to meet up and say hi and stuff, just message me and let me know and i'll give you my cell number :)
I'll be updating again after graduation!!
By:
SailorKitty
Age:
18-21
