Has anyone else been feeling like it's just been extra hard lately? These last few days have just been really hard for me. I've been missing my boyfriend. He's at basic and graduates on the 22nd of March so we don't have that much longer apart but it has just been really hard these past few days for some reason. Anyone else?
SweetImperfections SweetImperfections 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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what FLT is he in?

My boyfriend graduated his Marine Basic Training on the 1st of Feb, he came out very different. He was super serious about everything (so just beware) although, he did gradualy change back to himself the 17 days he was home :) he's gone again for Feild training for another month, then off to Tech School for two months. He's only a state below me but I miss he so much. I know exactly how you feel, some days seem worse than others. Just stay strong, you're one day closer to seeing him <3 and cherish him when he's back home!!! Remind him how much you've missed him, how true you are to him, and all those mushy things. He'll love it, mine did it made him so much more confident leaving knowing i'm STILL here loyal and waiting for him. :) you'll be fine, just take it one day at a time if you ever want to talk i'm here !!! I love messaging people and expressing everything since none of my friends understand :/ they all think i'm crazy to stay with him

Thank you so much! This really helped. And I definitely understand about the friends thing because mine don't understand either lol

Yup! My boyfriend is stationed in southern Georgia, while I live in Wisconsin. I went down to visit him last weekend but it feels like forever ago. Stay strong, and you can make it. Tons of other women have, too(:

Thank you! :)

I am with you girl. I have been feeling the same way! And my boyfriend graduates march 22nd too! :D

Yay!! Good luck and thanks! :)

Last Friday I had one of those days where I just woke up crying and was just plain miserable! All day I just felt like crying. But I am okay now lol I guess there will just be those days! My bf graduates a week before yours, on march 14! I am so excited and over halfway through! You are at the halfway mark and the hard part (first couple of weeks) are over! Its bound to get harder before it gets easier but it WILL get easier! Keep your head up and keep writing him and looking forward to letters and calls! (:

Thanks so much! You're right! It's just been a rough patch lately but I will be strong and get through this! Congrats on your boyfriend's graduation! Hopefully they will be able to call soon! I miss hearing his voice lol.

I got my last call yesterday and it is still the greatest feeling! The week before that he didn't get one at all! So technically he got two last week.. Monday and sunday! That was THE worst week! I had been expecting it either Saturday or Sunday and it didn't come lol That was a rough weekend lol

Lol yea so far they've only been able to call once but it was the BEST day ever when he called. It's just been rough lately because I miss him so bad and I'm going through personal issues and want him to just hold me so I can cry on his shoulder and feel better. smh.

Oh I feel the same way! When I am having problem after problem all I want to do is have him here to tell me what to do, how to do it, and when to do it! I NEED him just to solve all my problems for me! lol And I need him to vent to and take my side even when I am wrong lol I seemed to have a lot of things go wrong today and I needed him here! I wrote him about them but its just not the same cause I know I want get a response for a couple of weeks because next week is BEAST week and they cant write letters!

today is my day like that.. Ive been up since 5am and all morning all i could was cry as i got ready for work now im just so sad

Aww stay strong! It will definitely get better!

@AirforceGfxoxo YESSSS! Smh but I guess it will get better :)

That day I got a Surprise letter and call from my man so it made me feel better

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