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Thinking Too Much
A personal story in the experience: I Am a Young Military Girlfriend Or Wife
Nov 7th, 2009
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ey girls so for about over a month now i havent really been going out because i have just been too tired and i guess a bit depressed and i know i should go out but i just dont feel like dealing with anyone lately. so i sit at home on the comp or pretending to study and i just think soooo much. i think about when he is gonna come home for the holidays and how i dont think im gonna have any time with him. first off his mom is going to want to spend time with him and i can understand that but sometimes i feel like i have to compete with her just to see him sometimes and she basically always wins and then he is gonna want to hang out with all his friends and sure i can be with him while he is with them but i just feel like i wont be able to have me and him time and i cant plan anything cause he is a last min kinda guy which stinks. i know i am prolly over thinking but i just worry. and i have been cheated on before by a different guy but i still get worried just a little bit i know i can trust him and i fully do i just think and its bad! am i the only one who really thinks this much? sorry this is so long by the way. 
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  | Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 9:21PM awww i've become the same way about going out. and i understand all your worries about him coming home for the holidays. i know he needs to see his family and friends but it's just like i need time alone with him. and i've talked to him about it and he promises we will have time but i still do worry it won't happen. he gets to come home for two weeks and it kinda has helped a little that we kind of set up a schedule of when we're going to visit who and then the rest of the time is just for us to be together. so maybe you could try and talk to your guy about that? hope it helps :)   |
 | Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 8:03AM thanks. i guess i will try but idk if it will really work. i think i actually will do that ill ask him if we could at least have one night just me and him to maybe go to eat or w.e i dont even care but one nights not enough haha i guess i will just try to talk to him about it i just dont want him to think im too needy or anything which i dont think he will but im just crazy lol |
 Feeling depressed | Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 10:03AM you def are not the only one who thinks that much hun i do it all the time lol. when he comes home im sure he will make time for you and him time. im sure that he misses you more than anyone and that he wants that alone time w// you just as much as you do =) i hope things go well if you ever need to talk you can message me =) |
| Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 11:36AM thanks a lot its nice to know im not the only thinker out there lol |
 Feeling anxious | Posted Nov 11th, 2009 at 1:27PM i think until my eyes bug out... i dont go ne where unless it is with my mom and that is cause she drags me to go...i go to school n that is it. my friends dont understand why i dont feel the need to...but if u ever look at them army girlfriend quotes... one of them says that making up a care package or sending a letter to ur soldier is more fulfilling than a nite out with the girls. it is soooo true. hang in there i am. we gotta be army strong chicks. |
| Posted Nov 11th, 2009 at 3:51PM ahh its crazy! when he was in basic and i would send him care packages i loved it it was my high light of the week and of course so stressful but its worth it. my bf always asks why i dont go out and he always tells me to go out and dont think but i just dont want to im tired and stressed and i guess it would help with the stress but idk. |
 | Posted Nov 13th, 2009 at 10:05AM I over think things to the max and try to take control of everything but sometimes you just have to take a deep breath ad relax. I find that going on walks by myself with and ipod or without helps me a lot. it clears my head. Also another good thing to do which helps me with overthinking and stress is yoga. That will calm everyhting down, trust me, it works ;-) |
| Posted Nov 13th, 2009 at 3:52PM ive actually always wanted to do yoga. i think i just need to get out of my house sometimes even if i dont want to. i might go visit his parents tonight he needs more civi clothes and wants me to pick everything out. i should get a yoga dvd or something now that i think about it. |
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