I'm having so many doubts about this relationship and idk if it's because my anxiety is through the roof and I'm pmsing or if there really is an issue. I have so many things on my mind. I had a week from hell and the only thing saving me was knowing that he graduated basic on Thursday. So my expectations were very high. Our first FaceTime call, after ten weeks of not talking through anything but letters, only lasted about ten minutes. After graduation, same thing, maybe 20 minutes. And that's it. He relies on wifi until he has phone service again but it sucks because I even took off from work so I could talk to him all night long. His letters seemed very promising and he was so excited to talk to me. Idk. I don't know what to think. I love him but I am getting bad again with depression and anxiety and just don't know if I'm overreacting.
armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14
22-25, F
2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

I don't want to say that you are overreacting, but do know that your bf comes from a place where he was ALWAYS told what to do, he would get in trouble even for breathing more than he had too. Is going to take him a week or two to get used to "the outside" world give him time and also help him by not getting mad or upset.
After Boot Camp they tend to isolated themselves for a while everything in a way is new to them.. Be patient, be supportive and be there for him:)

I know. I haven't gotten mad at him or anything I just feel like I'm being put on the side burner. Thank you for your advice, I will try to be more open minded

Girl I'm going through the same thing. Although I don't have doubts about our relationship, I do have really bad anxiety. Keep hanging in there! We got this :)

Thank you <3 if you ever need to talk I'm here for you xoxo