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I Am Sharing My Brother's Wife

For the last two years I am sexually intimate with my elder brother's wife. I am doing this with the full consent of my brother. We share her equally and sleep with her on alternate nights. She is a very beautiful and intelligent woman. In fact she is a doctor. My mother who lives with us also is aware and fully approves of our arrangement. We have kept this a secret from everybody.

If you all have any questions, I will try my best to answer them.

polyandrist polyandrist 26-30, M 72 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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But how did u end up with such a big achievement?

My oldest brother has always been my mentor and my best friend. I learned a lot from him and always felt very close. I do not share his wife but even before I got married we talked and I told him that should I get married I would love to share my wife with him.
When I met my wife on my travels and it became clear that I would like to marry this lovely and beautiful girl that I had met, one evening I had an open heart-to-heart with her about my idea of sex in a marriage and that it didn't quite conform with norm. My future wife didn't ask that much and just said the whatever we do we do it together and we talk about it first and everyone can refuse what we don't like. I also told her about my brother who she had met just a few days ago and she just smiled, looked happy, kissed me and held me.

A couple of weeks later we went on an extensive journey through Europe and were accompanied by my brother. This is when it happened for the first time and we never looked back. I just love it. Can't explain but that's how it is. My wife loves it and brother says it has kept his marriage going over all these years. My wife and I have now been married for 30 years. My brother has been married for 42 years. He has two daughters and we have three sons.

I am a polyandrist too. I have relationship with my younger brother's wife and my brother sleeps with my wife sometimes. We never cared for the society as to whoever would say anything. As pointed in one of the responses, every one of us is born with different mindset and as long as the people within the relationship is happy, everything is fine. Sometimes, all the four of us sleep together and have fun. My mother also knows about it and she opines that as long as it does not bring in conflicts between us that should be ok, that way she wanted to uphold unity within the family.

Why don't you both have her together. This has the following benefits:<br />
1. She will enjoy more. Of course, take her consent before you discuss this among yourselves.<br />
2. You will get to have her everyday.

I would leave her, and yes this sound like a load of crap.

This is obviously a fictional tale, people--mere fantasy.

did any of you get her pregnant or give her a v.d.?<br />
do u u'r brother hang out(hav sex) with other women?<br />
does she hang out with other men

Sounds like a happy family. Are there ever any problems, as occasionally happen in a marriage?

anyhow people u are some what different ,<br />
can u mail me , how u deal with the girl. to parthu1236@yahoo.com

Nice Story,<br />
and good comments.<br />
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anyhow great entertainment....

to each his own but an arrangement like that wouldn't be for me especially in a marriage.

Many societies permit sex with brother's wife. It is up to individuals to decide if that would suit them. Nothing is wrong in this world as long as it does not break relationships and cause sorrow. The world is full of different people and relationships that may sound weird to others who do not have similar tastes (e.g. homosexuality is considered weird by some people who do not practice it). <br />
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Like in the case of Polyandrist, my wife has had sexual relationship with my younger brother for the past 10-12 years. I never felt jealous or odd about it. My wife has been able to give both of us enough love and pleasure to keep us both happy. She has enjoyed her relationship with both of us too, immensely. Generally, she is the one who decides whom she would have sex at any time. She balances our needs and desires well, while deriving her pleasures from us. This is much better than spouses having secret affairs with outsiders and then breaking families, affecting the children adversely. My wife has had two sons from us, and we never cared to know whether which one belongs to whom because after all they are the same genes, not an outsiders' genes. Some people may feel disgusted to read this reality but then the same people also feel disgusted easily on reading many other things. They should not be reading these, if they don't like it.

That is my idea of a perfect relationship.

This is all mad thing.I am from India and I am dam sure even if a man is impotent and cannot rais his ****,still he will not share his wife anybody in India.<br />
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I do not know from where you got this idea to defame Us like that.

cool tool, right now the only competition between my brother and me is who gets her pregnant first. and if she decides to have another man, she is free to do so. She is so beautiful, that even five men are not enough for her.

if you are all happy with that lifestyle, i don't think it makes a big difference what others think of you.<br />
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but don't you think this may develop some sort of competition between you and your brother? may be she would want you both to sleep with her at the same time? what about if she decides that 2 men are not enough for her?.......

if you are all happy with that lifestyle, i don't think it makes a big difference what others think of you.<br />
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but don't you think this may develop some sort of competition between you and your brother? may be she would want you both to sleep with her at the same time? what about if she decides that 2 men are not enough for her?.......

i fully agree with ur idea, my support to the lady

dude are u serious bcos im from india and its pretty rare of such incidents........

India

OMG! seriously?? .. I'd like to know what part of the world do u come frm??

this aint a secret any more mate....and it does sounds a bit crazy but after all its ur life....if u ever want to keep a secret...first keep it to urself............cheers

Would you add another person into your realtionship ?<br />
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im not talking another man but another women .<br />
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ive read serval books mostly scifi books that deal with simlar themes creating a super family structure with all parents dealing with children shareng each other creating a stable envoiroment for children and each other is that something you have thought about .<br />
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do you regret not being able to share your joy with other pepole haveng to keep all this a secret what do you plan for the future

Well Rallacious, sharing her means sharing her body and sharing her love. It does not have any possessive undertones. If anything, it is she who 'possesses' both of us.

hey i read your other stories and think i understand now...

I would like to know how this came to be and how did you and your brother reach this agreement?<br />
I would like to know if you are in a relationship with your sister in law besides sex?<br />
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Not judging I would just like answers please... since that is what this group is about.

Don't judge him that much... That's what you can do if your in love.. His brother loves the girl... And the girl loves him... AND WE CAN DO NOTHING ABOUT THAT.

I have a question for you... you mention that she is beautiful and intelligent, yet something doesn't ring true in the way you say that you 'share her'. You make her sound as if she is a posession or ob<x>ject to be shared. If you had true respect for the relationship between the three of you, you would phrase it differently, even say it is her choice to sleep with both of you. So, is this a true free relationship, do you see her as a posession or is this whole thing just made up?<br />
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I am definitely not a hater, but something about this post registers on the bs scale, whether its the actual situation or just your attitude towards it.

thanks for your understanding......... your profile name is too complicated!

yehwell i think what you have is great! if you're all happy with the arrangement, go for it. in my opinion, we don't really have a choice who we love. love is love; it's spontaneous, captivating, and will keep you prisoner in a cage with no bars if you let it--but when you have love, are experiencing love, and you are happy? all is well and that is that. *hugs* power to ya hun. :3

sharing your brother's wife is ok. but when kids come in to your life you have to thik practical & should not do infront of them & before that both of you have to decide whose is going to be a father of them. btw. if it is only etertainment then its ok. think practical also... , did you screwed infront of your mother what was her reaction. where is your father ...did you tried 3 owesome ... do it all and enjoy ...

nice story.... lucky lady,,, but how you are managing ... pls write. rejimalikayil@yahoo.com

people are haters. if a person can find one person to love them that's great. if a person can find two people to love them, that's awesome!

People like SplitPeaSoup would rather have everybody stay in medieval times with universal ideas of right and wrong - his ideas of course. Such people think that just because they have been taught that certain ideas are right and certain ideas are wrong, everybody else is bound to think in their way. So who is it who has a 'perverted pride' ?

Thanks to MTV and liberals worldwide, who shout "tolerance" and "diversity" and who deny that there is such thing as right and wrong, we now have to know about people like polyandrist and his medical doctor mistress. Not only that, we have to know about his perverted pride. You might think, "well, as long as he stays away from me and the people I care about..". But the truth is that this disease is spreading.

amr1021, sounds like you are narrow minded. Thanks for your opinion anyway. And I really don't understand this concept about easy women and hard women. If a woman sleeps with someone she loves, even if it is more than one man, I think that woman is just courageous enough to know her mind.

Ha Ha Ha ... some of these comments are funny! The three of you should keep going on as long as you want, and deal with any consequences as responsible adults. Love and live! I think a ********* is hot, but I don't recommend it unless you really want it. She probably enjoys sex with both of you because you're both different in bed. We should chat some time :)

Thanks dayenknight for beautifully expressing what I feel myself. While the human race is becoming technologically advanced, their moral values still belong to the middle ages.<br />
As far as children go, Ziff and SplitPeaSoup might be relieved to know that we don't plan to have kids at least in the near future.

If she gets preggo both just bail on her and claim she was having sex with a third man. Turn down paternity tests. It's not that far-fetched. I'm sure there's a brilliant way to rationalize it, too. Liberals are good at that. Hopefully she doesn't, though, since I cannot see how these people could possibly raise a child and show him the difference.

what if she gets pregnant? what are your plans? who's going to be the father & who's going to be the uncle?<br />
have you thought abt it?

Humans sure are judgmental arent they? When something does not fit the picture of what we have in mind feeling and conscience we denigrate it, chastise it, and condemn....<br />
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Relationships that are happy and pleasant no matter what configuration do more for humankind than judgments divorce separation and unhappiness does....<br />
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We frown on anything our own beliefs say is wrong and in particular when it comes to sexuality.... we are so hung up about it....<br />
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We call nudity and sex in public rude and obscene and criminal...yet we watch nudity and sex on a big screen in a movie theater and tell ourselves so long as its entertainment or art or sculpture its ok in fact its more beautiful if its not real in the flesh, how cocked up is that? <br />
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We are so protective about our own sexuality and we have to hide it from prying eyes and media otherwise its classed as obscene but we can watch murder war and killing daily on TV and in movies for entertainment and even give awards and celebrate the people who show it all as graphically as they can and the more dramatic the better now tell me which is more obscene??? <br />
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That it what I call sick !! real sick!!! bout time us humans woke up and took a real good look at ourselves...and change !!! celebrate love and the giving of that love to each other in peace and understanding in all its forms and drop all negative criticisms and judgment...and this world would become a happier and peaceful place to live...<br />
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If going to war and killing was made obscene and despicable would it not make more sense than going on about how immoral sex is when its not done according to how we think it should be done and who with...!!!

He is full of ****. I know his sister in law and she is actually a lesbian!

how can someone be so emotionally invested in the way another person chooses to live. agree or disagree, approve or not, be excited or repulsed, but please ease up on the harsh words.

Wow, moral relativism has no limits. Next thing you know this guy is going to cut the woman's head off with a chainsaw, and everyone will say, "No, it's only wrong because it's against some culture and religion."<br />
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We all know that absolutely everything is relative, except having sex with children. That's wrong. :P

Yeah and some religions are also against gay relationships - are you going to crucify gay people too???<br />
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It is their personal lifestyle, so no one should judge or has the right to judge them.

'cause it's against some culture and religion<br />
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if i were you're mom, i must have died of heart attack..

God, why are people so abusive? Its not like we have killed someone. Is it so bad for brothers to share a woman? It has been done before.

so yall all live with your mom an and screw the same women .no one cares in your house about this you just switch nites, if your mom knows about it hell why dont she just join in cuz that girl must not care who blows her. **** why dont u just put a sign up that says" will screw for money" an make a few dollars off this ..If she is a doc why is she livin with 2 guys an ther mommy . yall must be sum back wood rednecks or sumthin ,hey come 2 think about it if she will screw yall maybe u should see if she will let sum of yalls farm animals an yall can tape it then sell it 2 pervs like yall ...have fun

Dana's response is the golden example of why moral relativism is liberalism (synonomous with stupid).

k if u both lov her than go hav fun u crazy kids

How did you got to a peaceful arrangement. In most of world's cultures, it is unaceptable to share a woman. Usually that kind of thingd end up with a lot of pain and suffering, How did you avoid the violence and jealocy?

what kind of weird sick minded person are you, your practically using her and she must be a **** if she actually lets you guys touch and have relationships with her she is probably a blond young girl and both of you old ugly men who use her for their own personal pleasure, and you, cant you find another girl seriously you guys are probably rich and thats why she is with you both and your mother has no moral values how old is she? did they do the same to her, cause thats weird my mother would be embarrased and depressed for the rest of her life if she found out something like that and maybe would never talk to us again man your mom must be a worldly women someone who obviously doesnt care about you guys because you dont ever treat a women like that and she might as well work for playboy or something if she is going to b e that low and worse than dirt how dare she make us women look like were easy, facil, facile, what and estupida chicka and you que puerko marano seriously i think you guys are sick and messed up in the head maybe you guys watched too much *********** and have to do something stupid like that where i come from you respect woman and y ou never take another mans wife because if you do youll get beat up and maybe killed too bad you guys dont live were i come f rom than that would be sad. not.

This kind of sexual relationship usually starts from thoughts and/or desires of cheating and straying out of the relationship and is givin as a childish ultimatium to the other partner to either go along with or lose them. When children become envolved then the problem becomes even more advanced because then is there daddy & uncle or 2 daddys, that confuses a small child. Think about the future outcome before you think below the belt.

Thanks all for support. Well MattRamsey, as I have said my bhabhi is a very beautiful woman, she is tall, with lovely soft large breasts and a great tight butt. As I have said, we have sex with her separately. My brother though wants us to do it with her together. She is also open to the idea, and I think it attracts her very much, but I feel very hesitant to get naked in front of my brother. I have seen him having sex with her, and he is very passionate and does everything to her. I on the contrary am rather passive and let her take the lead.

Yeah, I would have let her go. How treacherous to put someone in a situation like that.

i agree, just because people are different doesnt mean their actions are wrong. im not saying i agree to what there doing, im just saying that its not breaking any law and its their constatutional right to have oral agreements. its better then lieing and banging his wife.<br />
-being different isnt wrong-

Hey, it's just sex, and everybody has different needs. If everybody's okay with it, I say go for it. I want to hear all the details about her and how each brother ***** her!

Thanks whatjusthappened for your support and understanding. Mostly people are so narrow minded that they think anything out of the ordinary is wrong. That is why our relationship has to be kept a secret.

This is the thing, if these individuals all agree on this then why should it be wrong?? Just because society says it is? Look not my cuppa tea (well basically because my husbands brother is just dog ugly ; ) he he he.) But if they are all cool with it I suppose each to his own then.

This is the thing, if these individuals all agree on this then why should it be wrong?? Just because society says it is? Look not my cuppa tea (well basically because my husbands brother is just dog ugly ; ) he he he.) But if they are all cool with it I suppose each to his own then.

sorry mate but thats off, there are some lines you should never cross and that would have to be near the top of that list.

I think you're full of crap. Regardless you're all screwed up.

woah, i'd rather leave her..

My brother finds it exciting to share his wife with another man. Besides she fell in love with me, and he had the choice to share her or leave her. Who in his right mind would leave such a beautiful, intelligent wife?

yea who would agree to their brother being with their wife

I'm curious...if she is your brother's wife why did your brother agree to this? Do you think he finds it sexually exciting to share his wife? And i wonder how this whole arrangement started.

Sorry, but that's just plain weird ...

I wouldn't have it any other way.

I like this idea :)

Not really. I think she loves it.

That must be exhausting for her. LOL