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hykinix hykinix
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5 Responses Mar 2, 2010

I have been friends with women I found attractive (I am straight) and while a physical impulse may always remain to some degree, differences in personality have made it possible for me to retain a friendship-based relationship with them.<br />
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Some people seem to find more difficulty in this resistance. I have always valued personal connection above aesthetic attraction.

Do you think that a straight man can be friends with a hot chick and not just want to get her into bed?

thank u for the advice it will really help

Tell tale signs in my opinion would firstly include less-than-subtle or consistent hints towards sexual activity. This isn't bad unless you don't reciprocate those same feelings. If you're being unduly pressured, there's a chance he's not entirely sincere.<br />
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Being bought things by him wayyy more than what is reasonable is another bribery-like method, I would think.<br />
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Be sensitive to his subtleties. You are the best judge.

Hiya im going to go university in september and was wondering how to tell if a guy jus wants to use you or wants a serious relationship? Are there any tell tell signs?