But Then Isn't Everybody?

Of course my fear comes from actually being rejected.......numerous times. It wasn't pretty people! What I don't understand is why people have to be cruel about it. If you don't want to be seen with me, then don't ask me to go somewhere with you & then have your "friends" tell me differently when you don't show.
And gentlemen, if you're pretty sure you aren't gonna want to "be" with me for whatever reason, do me a favor............Don't bother!! Just get out now, because I've wasted enough time on guys who think I'm okay for an occasional lay but actually date her..........NO WAY!
I don't need that kind of heartache. So, do me that favor will ya. If you aren't planning on sticking around for the long haul either as a friend or a lover then get the hell out of my life NOW. I'm 37 years old, I've wasted enough of my life on losers...................

Thanks. Wyn

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1 Response Mar 26, 2009

You need to manage expectations. There's nothing wrong with meaningless sex if you both agree to it, but there has to be communication. Don't take it personally if you and another person just want different things, learn from it...