Still Waiting

Ever since my ex-fiance and I broke up I have been afraid of being single forever.  My ex was the first girl that I ever said "I love you" to.  She was my first love.  I guess I just feel like I do not know how to start something over with someone else.  Any confidence that I used to have is missing in action.  Hopefully I will find a great girl to share my life with one day.  Right now I am afraid it is doubtful. 
GuyWhite GuyWhite
26-30, M
6 Responses Oct 16, 2007

there a website call meetup. com. become part of a group or create you own group. check it out. great place to meet people

i understand where you are comeing from i have the same fears that i wont find someone to spend my life with but maybe we are both wrong who knows what the futher holds dont give up

I am 29 and not married. Sometimes the loneliness gets to me. Basically being alone leaves you with two choices - to become desperate and panicky; or to hope for the best in the future. I still hope to meet a partner and have kids, but it is worse to be with someone who you are not compatible with (I have experienced that too).

The funny thing here is that I wrote this story not long before I found myself in a situation with the married girl I work with.

I married my first love and I miss him very much we are know separated for two years.You will fall in love again when the time is right.You should never rush things in life find something that you love doing and maybe you will find that person. Be happy about your freedom for now I just try to focus on the positive things.

cheer up.. that happens. maybe one day everything will be alright.. for now, cherish the good times. just don't let it get you down, alright? :)