Doubting

I have a wonderful fiancé, that I love very dearly. There is only one problem, I am terrified of marriage. We have been engaged for over a year and still haven't officially set a date. I don't want to get married. I don't want to get tied down. I don't want to have kids. I'm in my junior year of college, and most of my friends either have children, or are married. But I don't want to ruin my relationship. Sometimes I even wonder if I am with the right man. I am so scared of the future. I can see myself married to him, and raising children together so I honestly don't know what my problem is.
MandeSe MandeSe
18-21, F
2 Responses Mar 25, 2013

I am in the same situation! He is perfect, but I need more time!
You don't have to book anything . Just enjoy each other.

well you kind of contradicted yourself..you say you don't see yourself married to this man, but yet you do?...if you have this many doubts, you owe it to your fiance to talk to him about this...def postpone any wedding plans until you're 100% sure...i speak from experience