My Wife Doesnt Show Me Affection.

Your wife is self-involved and is taking you for granted. Pull away a bit. Listen to her instead of talking. She has heard you until you are repreating yourself--to ask her to talk about her day and listen. You may find you are more important to her life than you believe.

Where we married to the same woman? Through 23 years off marriage I have given my wife everything she had ever asked for, cloths, rings, children,cars and other things. She was happy while she was receiving them and the next day it started all over again. Every morning before work I would tell her I loved her and gave her a kiss. I told her all the time how beautiful she was, when she said how does this look I would say that you look good in every thing you wear. She started going out for girls night out with some friends? and then it was a routine for me to look after the kids while she was out in the clubs. She had two emotional or mental affairs on the internet with some one over seas. I was away working my *** off to provide for her and our kids needs and she was doing this behind my back. Well one year ago she left me and our two kids and all I had worked so hard to give her and the kids. Our home and everything was nothing to her all she wanted was her cloths and rings off course. She had so much cloths to move that she had to get a moving truck to take it away.I wondered if she ever did love me, she was always so negative and never involved herself with me. We would go out and it was like I was just there to buy her drinks. I often wonder if she just married me to get away from her parents who didnt treat her very well when she was young. Now she says she wants what she is entitled to in the marriage. I have a summer home that was passed down to me by my parents and it was not marital property along with other stuff. This women is trying to drive me insane, I have never laid a hand on her and just recently she tried to put a peace bond on me. She has been phoning me looking for money among other stuff, but I have now cut off all dealings with her. I still love her and I have no idea where my life is headed, I suggest you get a darn good lawyer because you will need it . She probably already has one and is waiting for you to slip up in some way.

my wife is acting wird towards me she says she loves me but she doesnt show any affection we havnt had sex for along time and its getting worse to the point now i dont want to do it anymore as i dont know when the next time will be everytime i ask i get ive got a headache or im not well to im tired when i told her this she just turned it on me about my inperfections instead of seeing what was realy going on at the time i feel alone and i love her i dont want to lose her but im thinking of leaving as if i dont feel love whats the point in being together

Today I texted my wife and told her that I was coming home early and she asked me why? Then she asked me how far away I was. And when I got home I saw tire tracks on the road like someone had backed out of my driveway. As I opened the garage she was sitting there smoking a cigarette. I felt the hood of our car in the garage and it was not warm. I smelled the spray of febreeze and I asked her why did she spray that she said because she got cigarette smoke in the house. As I went to change my clothes in the closet I noticed the bed was just made, like she had just made it rescently. I called for the dogs and come to find out they were downstairs. Normally we put the dogs downstairs because when people come over they get all rowdy and start barking. I was downstairs and she walked down and the first thing she says was nothing happend. She just told me that someone was here. I have never been so hurt in my life. I love her so much, I just got through telling a friend of mine that I was going to buy my wife a corvette for christmas.

I love her so much. I tell her everyday that Iove her and that she is the only one for me. And this is the thanks I get. I dont want anything just for her to be with me and love me.on me I just want a companion to be with me. If this does pan out to where she did in fact cheat this will be the second time that I have been cheated on. I asked my friend flat out if I am doing something wrong? And the answer was no. I dont get it at all. I treat my wife with love and respect like all women should be treated. But for some reason I keep getting burned. And this hurts so bad. I did nothing wrong.

Im not trying to paint myself as the saint or the best husband in the world but I am being perfectly honest with what I am writing. I have not embeleshed at all.

Thank you friend..You know who you are.

I dont know..Like tonight I begged her to go out with me to dinner and she didnt go. So I went on my own. And when I got there the waitress asked me, table for 1 and I said yup! And while I was eating I took a picture of my steak to send to a friend of mine and while I was doing so the waitress came up and started talking to me. So we talked for a while but I never said anything about my wife in a bad way at all. So she kept on coming by and talking and as I was getting ready to leave she left the bill and it had her name on it along with her cell number. I didnt take it of course because I am a married man and I love my wife and I will do anything for her. I just dont understand what I am doing wrong. I will never cheat on my wife or ever scream or yell at her because you are supposed to devote and love your wife.