When Will The Day Come???

Why can't I find love? I'm already 21 and I've never been in a serious relationship before in my life? Is it because I'm unlovable? Is it because I'm on the heavier side or not as beautiful as the women on tv??? I wish I could just find the perfect man for me. The one that would be able to have a REAL conversation with me about anything and everything, a man that can put up with my stubbornness and bullshit. Why can't I find someone to love me for me and not for what I'm not, nor do I want to become? I feel so old and am afraid that I'll become a spinster for the rest of my life =_=
Lady808 Lady808
18-21, F
1 Response May 7, 2012

Well I've never been in a serious relationship and I'm 26...What does that say about me? Am I spinster? lol I don't think either of us is unlovable. I think we just haven't met someone who completes us. The first thing you have to do though is love yourself. Everyone can see it when you don't. Have some confidence in the amazing you that exists. Once everyone sees how confident you are people will be more attracted to you.