And Then What?

Hopefully I finally graduate from uni next year... but then what? I stay here or I go back to my home country?

I'm afraid I'll be stuck in a job that I don't like. Or perhaps I should study some more but where and what should I study?

I'm afraid that I'll be miserable if by a chance I do get married or I'll regret things if I stay single.

I'm afraid I'm a disappointment to my parents. I'm afraid my travels will have to stop - I will have to settle down.

I'm afraid I'll reach a stand still in life... No matter how I look at it the future really scares me.

an7ya an7ya
26-30, F
2 Responses Apr 23, 2009

I really like your comment. You have shown me another way to view the future in relation to the choices that I make now.

Please excuse the "random story spinner" response<br />
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The future is scary, but it's not as bad as being ten years older and looking back at regret that you didn't do the things you wanted. I speak from experience. :-)<br />
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Go with your heart, and don't over-think things. Keep in mind the things that you value. You won't be able to please everyone, but it's not worth pleasing the rest of the world if you're miserable. Again - I speak from experience. :-)<br />
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It'll be okay. Hang in there.