I Don't Know What To Do

MY WIFE OF 20 YEARS IS SO BAD WITH PILLS THAT ME AND MY 16 YEAR OLD SON CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE. WHEN SHE GET HER MEDS. SHE PASSES OUT BENT OVER STANDING UP , ON THE THE FLOOR , BENT OVER ON A  COUNTER , EVEN FOUND HER ON THE CLOSET FLOOR. WE ARE AFRAID SHE WILL BURN THE HOUSE DOWN WITH CIGS. DROPS HER DRINKS AND FALLS ASLEEP WITH HER FACE IN A PLATE OF FOOD . WE KNOW SEE IS GOING TO O.D. AND CAN'T STOP IT . SHE HAS TWO FRIENDS THAT DIED FROM PILLS BUT SHE SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH WHAT SHE DOES . WE KNOW WE HAVE TO LEAVE BUT CAN'T . SHE TELLS ME SHE NEED THEM AND I NEED TO CHECK OUT SITES THAT TALK ABOUT HER PAIN AND THE PILLS SHE NEEDS . I DO UNDERSTAND THAT SHE NEEDS SOME BUT I MYSELF WAS BORN AT NIGHT NOT LAST NIGHT , I KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ONE BEER AND TWENTY-FOUR.

noid158 noid158
56-60, M
4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

Never enough.. Living the same life and it sucks.

Hello from me need help well my divorce isn't final and dad has the kids getting my ducks lined up for court day i havwe my kids three days a week due to i had to leave the house, having car problems with no money but filled for help spousal sup, i am glad that i am getting rid of this monster dsad for kids oh in due time.

This advice is from meneedhelp, It not my wife my husband, I feel your pain I was married for 19 years, as to say to be ex husband going threw a divorce, going on for 1 year i don't have my child yet went threw child evaluators, my ex husband to be of his age 52, his mommy and daddy are holding his hand, justice will be served, Her started 20mg of oxyco, know last time 120 mg a day, comotose, I feel for you my ex has done everyhing you .mentioned plus more, I gave my ex husband 3 things to do in three months and he couldn't listen, i told him if he didn't listen then i was going to file for divorce, he laughted at me thought it was a joke- remember absent makes the heart grow fonder- it is true my children miss and love me i could and do cry, but i am strong god has a plan, my children appreciate me more, i CAN HERE IN THEIR VOICES.<br />
1. he needed to go seek therapy, 2 he would let me go to the doctor to disjust his painand meds, three other was house situation, he did nothing at all, then the day i found him sleep on kitchen floor, all i wanted to do was cry. All it took, I did asked god, it this the life he wants me and children to live, said no, in time my hands with reach my little fingers, but my children see a different mom, and absent makes heart grow fonder, and so will yours, make a plan, and you will find.

We live in a world of nothing but hardships for all in every place of the world with more sadness than words can express. When we our own selves get into a situation like yours that we have no control over, and many there are, there is but one help and escape which requires a direct communication with God. Not man made church buildings with blind leading blind, but just God as He commands in the Bible. You see what your wife is doing but what can you do? Just have some faith in who creayed the entire universe including you. Take God for His words of truth and nothing man tells you. Psalms 118:8<br />
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Do you believe in God? When we do with love in our hearts, He also loves us. Proverbs 8:17 <br />
Have needs? He knows them. Matthews 6:8<br />
Have faith? Because without it you can't please God Hebrews 11:6<br />
Have problem? Cast all your cares upon Him; for he careth for you. <br />
And God cannot lie Titus 1:2<br />
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Ask yourself how many choices do you have? Go for the guarantee and God will at least give you the inner peace to deal with what out of control along with doing also great things according to His will.