I came from a single parent home, living with my Mom. My Dad didn't claim me and I'm distant to my other siblings that he had with other women. My Mom told me to never hate him even though she did admit that he may not be my Dad. What is that to say to a ten year old? I am 38 now, have my own family and my fiance is the father of our child. I wanted to be smarter than my Mom in that category. Nowadays I just work and provide for my family. I have been blessed with a good one.