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I Am African American

I May Be Black But I Like White Men.

By: lilskyy
Written on October 18th, 2007
By: lilskyy
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • SidNTx

    Hit me up sometime baby, I would love to spend some time with a hot black lady like you.

    Sid
    SidNTx@ the y

    May 3
    1 like
  • verver801

    True, i do want to date outside of my race, not just white. i am not easily the person to walk up to a guy im attracted to and asks them out. ugh!!

    Apr 26
    1 like
  • tenderkiss

    i like all women regardless of racial background, id love to check you out, you sound hot any chance of adding me as a friend ;)

    Apr 22
    1 like
  • blkking74

    And hey more white men go for black women which its mainly the dark skin ones anyway the more white and asian women for us too lol go ahead white boys lol

    Apr 3
    1 like
    • opdog21

      I like the light to medium skinned women but i can appreciate any good woman no matter what race

      Apr 11
      2 likes
  • blkking74

    Well that is why I date latinas they are more black and understand the black man then the black women smh all you black love being house niggas lol well more latinas for me

    Apr 3
    1 like
  • Rick85

    im a white guy 28 and i love black woman especially older

    feel free to ad me on skype for a chat: mokumhools

    Jan 29
    1 like
  • nicklix2

    I am a white man and I adore black women,and, I've had some of the best sex with black women, but, also with asians .!

    Jan 14
    2 likes
  • nyct06511

    Maybe if you liked black men, white men would like you. It's a vibe. Anyone who prefers another due to skin color and not culture or proper upbrining has an issue.

    I have heard black men and black women say how much they like another ethnicity over their own for some lame reasons. I think this only goes to show how shallow people are although they are trying to show how open they are to difference.

    Jan 12
    4 likes
  • nana2085

    Black and white mix well together call me white boyz lol

    Jan 3
    2 likes
  • nyct06511

    I wish people would get over this whole black white dating thing. And find someone you can love. People who are always thinking in regards of complexion eyes wonder. I love women regardless of complexion. I'm more concerned about her upbringing.

    Dec 26, 2012
    3 likes
  • 1952ohphil

    I am a white man, dated black girls in the past, one girl was very black skin, I enjoy her very much as same with the other, guess I didn't see the skin color, but it the brain that I like about.

    Dec 24, 2012
    3 likes
  • gsparky22

    As I have seen,and enjoyed, posted in reply in this group, "Nigga please!"

    Dec 19, 2012
    1 like
  • NiceGuy1990

    Iam not sure really what to say but as a white male( that loves black females) from the uk it is nice to see black ladies that are in to white males think it is still a big-ish taboo over here but nice to see it does happen and lead on to getting marryed or at lest a strong relationship and not just se x

    Nov 20, 2012
    2 likes
  • Rangerbob69

    I agree, call me anytime!!

    White, Ranger Bob69

    Aug 26, 2012
    2 likes
  • TheatreLover22

    I'm a black young woman and I love men all different races. I love interracial dating also. It doesn't matter if the man is white, black, hispanic, asian or whatever as long as he loves me for me and treats me right.

    Aug 13, 2012
    11 likes
  • shaneor555

    well im a white guy and I LOVE black women.

    feel to skype me for chat: soreilly26

    Aug 13, 2012
    6 likes
  • seriouslylonely

    no one wants me...everyone tells me i'm pretty, but no one wants me...i'm black/mixed heritage and i prefer white men as well. (i'm not attracted to black men) I'm 31, and I've been single for 7 years (not by choice). I'm starting to feel no one will ever want me...All the white men I've been interested in has ended up with a pretty young white woman and it's wreaking havoc on my self esteem to the point where I don't really have any anymore.

    Aug 5, 2012
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    • Colormevibrant

      are u even a real person?? Why is your profile info so blank?

      Sep 10, 2012
      1 like
  • SourlySweet

    What really irks me is that a black guy can date a white woman and their relationship would be considered "cute" by some, especially if they're both attractive. But if a black woman dates a white man then the black woman is a "sell out" -____- I like pretty much all races, but by most, I'm considered an "oreo" just because I'm not ghetto and I prefer to talk like I have an education. Black guys are just turned off to that I guess, at least the ones that I'm one... and the white guys have a bad view on black women, saying that most of the are "loud, dirty, and slutty" so most white men around here aren't attracted to black girls. SMH, just can't win >.>

    Jul 19, 2012
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    • dragonofjapan

      You both may find that you are educated and that is scary. African American culture is mainly a matriarchal society, but add the current trend of 3 to 5 times the number of black women to black men finishing college and gets scary for the guy who thinks having pants around his knees (I'm guessing to show off his butt for the 'downlow' boys) and barely able to speak the language of the country he was born in in some intelligible manner, could cause a bit of a shortage of interesting black men................and it is "speak properly" you are modifying the verb.......as to most black women being loud dirty and slutty.........maybe those white guys watch too much Jerry Springer.

      Aug 19, 2012
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  • Lovinit88

    I'm a AA female and I'm very attracted to white men and have no issues with attracting them idk my mom hates it... But loves her mixed grandkids lol...but I just tell her I can't help it they flock to me like bees to honey... Lol...only thing hard 4 me is I'm 23 and I like them in the 30-40 age range.. Not a gold digger but men my age are to immature 4 me...

    Jul 9, 2012
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    • AfricanPrincessL29

      I also prefer older men. You are old enough to know what you are doing so it's ok even if he is 50.

      Oct 13, 2012
      1 like
  • misery22

    It is okay for you to like who you like. My cousin after her she divorce her husband started dating a white man and now she will not date any other race. Funny for me, I learned that I missed out on a lot of dates because blk men thought I only dated white. I spent many a nights alone because of it. Till a White man schooled me on why I was not being asked out. I was just being too white for the blk men and not black enough for the white ones LOL. best of luck hope you find love no matter the color.

    Jun 15, 2012
    4 likes
  • CowgirlBebop

    I have a lot of family in Alabama and I usually don't date in my own race because I'm afraid of accidentally dating some long lost cousin.

    May 28, 2012
    3 likes
  • Mooseman57

    Beauty n sensuality is a trait shared by all women of all races n colors-although each group seem to have their own enchanting characteristic. I am pink white n am quite partial to ebony women-tho, if I still hear an Irish or Scottish accent-I still get weak n mushy!

    May 2, 2012
    3 likes
  • author2

    I hope you will read Tales from the Quarters" books by Beax Rivers (I'm Beax)! They celebrate US in all our skin colors, all our diversity, from the blackest black to the lightest light. ALL OF US, from those who love and marry black, to those who love and marry white, and in-between. Men and women, meeting, finding out the challenges and changes they have to face as beings in love. Romance and mystery, in a magic love cocktail! Hoorah!

    Feb 27, 2012
    4 likes
  • collegelady95

    i like all races, but i love white boys and there hair. i don't even have to date them i'll just go up to them and be like can i touch your har.

    Feb 26, 2012
    3 likes
  • chocolatedulce21

    I am a healthy 37 year old black woman who has always dated non black men. I see black men who I am attracted to but when it come to sex , I am not. Dating white men in the 90's was very difficult. I have would play dates with my son and random idiots, black and white, would ask me if i was his nanny or the baby sitter.

    In 2012, I thank God , I am strong person who never had my opinions changed or shaped by others. Date whom ever you want in life. Life to to short to life your life unhappy.

    When I date a guy I cover the basics, I remind him that I am black and that will never change. I am not a secret in your life and I will never be. If your family has issue with an interracial relationship, then we can not date. Family is very important. In the end, an outsider should never break up family ties. Family is were the toughest battles will be fought if they do not support it.

    3 Kids and 17 years later......I am glad that I ignore the comments made by everyone. Life is good.

    Feb 5, 2012
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  • bijouxbroussard

    I'm half black and half white and I've always found it interesting that when I'm with a white man I'm "dating outside the race" but when I'm with a black man I'm not. My younger brother likes black women exclusively and is celebrated for it, while our youngest sister likes white men exclusively and is given a bad time. White men are attracted to her, too, so she's never wanted for dates, but she's had black men say ugly things to her when seeing her with white boyfriends, or occasionally even now, with her husband and child. I've always told her she has the right to love whom she loves. I say that to you as well. Good luck to you.

    Nov 27, 2011
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    • Superlatent10121

      Every one of those blacks dudes could suck my balls. I tell him haha your ***** loves me *****, cuz you a poor excuse for a man! Get back in your cage ***** before I smack you around haha.... No offense to all the respectful people out there.... But that's the only reason all the white men and black women not together. These black guys are trying hard to stop it. If I have sex with a black girl I'm some kind of pervert? What? Or she only wants my money? What? Don't most girls want a financially stable man anyway? Or I only want sex from her? What? Isn't that what men want from women?? And when all the bullshit propaganda fails they'll just jump the gun and last ditch effort is violence.... But that don't work on me cuz I'll whoop that *** homie! Aight? This is my ***** now!........ Once again.... For all those respectful brothers of African decent out there... I'm sorry you had to witness this.... I would be glad to share my white sisters with you..... Anyway class is in session and I want all of curious people to go and read the book of genesis and the story of the sons of Jacob and what happened to their sister's male suitor who proclaimed his love for the daughter of Israel..... Now isn't that some ****! Is anybody following me here????.....

      Dec 3, 2011
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  • youngstud21tw

    like me:)?

    Nov 27, 2011
    1 like
  • youngstud21tw

    like me:)?

    Nov 27, 2011
    2 likes
  • malesexybitch

    i would love to have a black female to worship and adore. they rule

    Nov 19, 2011
    4 likes
  • dragonofjapan

    Every time I turn around, there is a woman I like. I have a number of black female friends, but I was bent out of shape when I was younger by a coal black woman in Ivory Coast who became my slave (her decision, but really I was into S&M so took very little arm twisting on her part. I am an ethical saidst i.e. only lie doing this to masochist and am a real whimp about pain {not entirely true, but hell ruins the story right} so I caved to her need and desire to serve me), she was BTW very smart and very strong willed just loved being a slave and felt it was her god given destiny.

    My problem with black women now is I am attracted to the slender, younger submissive ones. I do not think this is a racist thing, I was married to a Japanese woman, my sister married a Jamaican (holy christ never tell them they are black! "I a not BLACK I am Jamaican! LOL) I have loved all over the world and truly adore and worship women. I do not think they need to be submissive because there are too many men who need a dominant woman! Ladies those of you who are a bit pissed off at men grab one or two of these poor wimps, they will let you have some "real man" lovers likely bring them home to you, and cook dinner and serve you both breakfast in bed!

    We all have our attractions and our points of attraction. I love a woman's eyes and the shape of her lips. I prefer small breasts and small butts (those apple shaped ones).

    I love smart women and strong willed which many people think is a contradiction, but the most submissive women actually in my experience have the strongest wills.

    I don't seek someone like me but rather someone who is a compliment to me, that famed opposites attract.

    In general we are raised to be afraid of people we have little experience of, but there are some who find that difference exciting, appealing, interesting and attractive; the exotic unknown.

    While you talk about many white guys not giving you a chance, I have found black women in America to be far more reluctant to date outside there race than nearly any other group except the Koreans, who seem to have one of the most ethnocentric cultures I have ever encountered.

    My daughter, who is a double (100% American-European and 100% Japanese) has been dating a Korean guy. HER grandmother is telling her, "Don't marry a Korean!" and HIS mother is "Don't marry a Korean!"

    Mom showed up at their college, found my daughter's underpants in HIS laundry basket and got ALL up in his face about dating a Japanese, even though she is beautiful, brilliant and charming as can be (I am not being an Oyabaka here, go learn the meaning yourself). They both told me about this and so I found this picture of a hot but definitely, not your "nice" black girl and told him, send this to your mother tell her you broke up with my daughter and you are dating a very Nice girl now and see what she says.

    She was on the NEXT plane from Korea to get him back together with my daughter!

    I was raised near NYC and had a cousin who was a part of the UN. She spoke 47 languages like a native. I would go to UN functions all the time, you get used to different people and cultures.

    If you find yourself disliking someone you do not know because of their race, go talk to them. YOu will discover more times than not they are quite human, this is of course assuming YOU are.

    Keep smiling and find and follow your bliss.

    And any of you cute, younger, slender, submissive black girls who have a thing for older, handsome charming dominant white men, do please send me a message, wave or famed 'shout out'. I am not interested in a cheap thrill, I am a man who knows how to give and keep his word.

    For the rest of you allow me to leave you with something to think about.



    The only thing you really have in life is your word. Everything else, you family, friends, the air you breathe and the food you eat is a gift.

    Your word is the only thing you really have. Do not give it casually and when you do, do absolutely everything in your power to keep it, even when it is to your detriment at the time, it will pay you back and then some over time.

    Being known as a person 'Of your Word' is only of the best things. It will open doors closed to many others. It also feels good to know you are this type of person.

    Sep 10, 2011
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    • Superlatent10121

      ............. What?????

      Dec 3, 2011
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    • dragonofjapan

      yeh I know I am a total *******. I start with this simple idea and the ******* thing just gets away from you. Holy christ! Like where did it even come from?

      Dec 3, 2011
      1 like

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