I Am Against Abortion.....

because I do not want am unborn baby to be killed. Babies are suppose to be a blessing, not a punishment. If you have sex and become pregnant when younger you should not get an abortion. It's just a lesson you learn along the way to be more careful and not have unprotected sex. I also am aware that if you use protection you still could become pregnant or get the woman pregnant, but less likely to happen. I got my very first girlfriend pregnant when she was 16. We had been together since middle school in 7th grade and decided to sleep together. She told me she was a month late and I totally freaked out and she got in a big argument with me. I really loved her and wasn't ready to be a dad yet, but would do anything for her and tried to patch things up. I tried to call her and left messages, email her and even approach her at school to talk about the situation. The next day she wasn't at school. A total of 2 weeks she wasn't at school and I actually started to worry about her. Well, it turns out that she got an abortion. I had heard from one of her friends and her dad didn't want her to have a baby and her mother was on a very long trip to visit her sister in the hospital who was diagnosed with breast cancer. I don't think her mom found out she got an abortion or she would have been very disappointed. I had known my girlfriend a long time and thought she was too, but I guess people change. I was p***** that she didn't even talk it over with me though. How did she expect me to react. I was told and only had five minutes to get used of the idea and she had a whole month and made a very bad choice to get rid of it. I wasn't ready for that responsibility yet, but when I was older I planned on getting married to her, helping take care of it on weekends, ect. The least she could have did was have my baby. I helped create that life and she barfed on my shoes during her very early stages of morning sickness. What can I say... If only I would have kept it in my pants until after graduation. My sister also got an abortion, but kept the baby long enough for us all to want it. She experienced morning sickness, backaches, and a bursting bladder. She was almost halfway there, 4 months pregnant. She went to the gyno and even had an ultrasound and everything. Then she found out her boyfriend was cheating on her and was so ticked she terminated the pregnancy. If she didn't get an abortion I could have had a nephew. Now finally I actually get a bundle of joy after all this waiting. My current girlfriend is pregnant and i'm excited. She could pop it out any day and I am really attached, but feel like such a selfish bastard all I can think about is getting some again. I feel so rotten.

craphead craphead
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20 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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I thought I was against abortion, I recently found out I am six weeks pregnant, I am very young and very scared.. a couple of my young friends got pregnant and people look at you differently when young woman do get pregnant, alot of people turn their backs on you. Men don't understand how its frowned upon being young and pregnant. Its like your an outcast Im young and made a life changing mistake, and im not ready to be a mother.

I thought I was against abortion, I recently found out I am six weeks pregnant, I am very young and very scared.. a couple of my young friends got pregnant and people look at you differently when young woman do get pregnant, alot of people turn their backs on you. Men don't understand how its frowned upon being young and pregnant. Its like your an outcast Im young and made a life changing mistake, and im not ready to be a mother.

Your exactly right SnowAngel. Thanx for your comment.

I believe a father should have the right to his child even if the mother doesn't want the baby. It's all about the woman and how she feels...what about the father knowing that the woman carrying his child can murder his child? Sad, plain sad. It makes me so upset...for lack of a better example: how about we get all the people who are pro-choice and put their hand in a wood chipper? Guess it wouldn't feel too good...imagine your entire body being chopped. I seriously think that people who think abortion is okay have problems with their heart. Abortion is murder.

My mouth dropped when I read, "the least she could do was have my baby". <br />
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What's funny about it is the absurdity, like it's so simple and no big deal at all to carry, deliver, and raise a child...like it's such a small thing to ask of someone. It's HUGE! The biggest deal there is, pretty much. Nothing is more life-altering. And it's so easy for a man to say, because he doesn't have to do it. No matter what you may think, it couldn't change his life as drastically as it would change hers.

I disagree with Causticstorm. You think that if a guy actually wants to have a part in a child’s life that he is thinking more about raising the child in his own image. I didn’t read any part of this story that tells me that. Your for abortion just because of guys like him? That’s actually a reason to end a life? Just because? Out of spite? Because guys have no rights at all in a life they created, that’s just plain stupid.<br />
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Your also saying that a female being bogged down by pregnancy out weighs the babies right to live. At least that’s what it sounds like to me. Actually your saying that men who want to keep babies, want to keep them just because they want to raise the baby in their own image. I guess that’s a bad thing for someone to want to raised a child to be like them or to be raised in a cretin way.<br />
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A female who is bogged down by a pregnancy is just a terrible thing and should take precedence over a man who wants to keep the baby they created. That doesn’t make any sense to me at all. To say that it would damage a woman’s body is far worse then to bring life in to this world is just freaken selfish. <br />
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So his sisters life, well being are in jeopardy because she was pregnant. How so? <br />
Freedom from shame? Better to kill a baby and be free of shame that her boyfriend cheated on her. So its ok kill the baby because the father cheated. Just like that? Out of spite? Really we will never know why she truly decided to terminate the pregnancy but to say she needs to get rid of it to save her from shame is ridicules. Again your saying that man has no choice in any women’s pregnancy. What if it were someone’s wife that were pregnant and she decided it was to inconvenient for her to have a child that it would ruin he perfect body. Would the father/husband have a choice then? Never mind that they are married and he wants children right? Again ridicules.<br />
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That’s your problem with Pro-life types? Wow, that’s really deep! A father/potential father has no choice in the life of a child he created? His opinion shouldn’t even matter? That’s just F*%$#@ up.<br />
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“Pro-life types think that females are nothing but a life support system for a Uterus?” (do you mean fetus?) Technically that is the way women are made; almost all females on the face of this planet are made that way minus a few special exceptions in nature. Why do you view it in such a negative way. I am happy and proud I can have children.<br />
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Men may not fully understand pregnancy or how it feels in any way shape or form but to think that all men see women as a life support system is a distorted point of view. And just the same I don’t see how all Pro-abortionists can see a “fetus” as something that is so disposable. Not worth considering in any way shape or form as a baby, a life, a person who has the right to live just because a “Women” has to carry it.<br />
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I can tell you that pregnancy isn’t easy. I have had two and I am more then happy I had them. My husband also cheated on me and I found out about it 2 months after I was pregnant with my second child. I thought for a few moments that it would be best thing to do, just get rid of it but I knew I couldn’t do it because it was life that I was carrying in my body. If you don’t believe that it is then you have no heart. I had an ultra sound done at 10 weeks and I could see my baby move its arms legs and head in reaction to the type of ultra sound they used (Transvaginal ultrasound, meaning the kind they insert in to the vagina). The baby practically jumped because they had to move the probe around to get a better look at him. It didn’t just jump it moved its arm’s, legs and head around in protest. So I have no dought that the baby is aware of what is going on around him.<br />
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As for “Respectable.” The girl wasn’t raped so I don’t know where you pulled that one out of. Rap is hard and in my opinion, I can understand why that person would want to have an abortion. But I think the abortion should be done right away, not later on in the pregnancy. But in this situation it doesn’t have much if any bearing at all.<br />
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"The least she could have did was have my baby." Hahahaha! I like that one.” <br />
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How is that funny? He didn’t rap her. They knew each other for a long time and they were dating. I don’t think that’s funny in anyway. She didn’t even consider his opinion or feelings. Again as if to say a “fetus” is just some disposable thing to get rid of because it was just a F*%$ up.

OK, I'm not gonna argue this one with you.

And that is your choice. If you choose to have sex and use protection you know there is still a small chance that you can get pregnant. You have to be willing to live up to the consequences if you by some freak chance happen to get pregnant. There are other options if you can't afford it, like giving it up for adoption. If you aren't willing to live up to responsibility then you shouldn't be having sex, plain and simple!

So does that mean if I got pregnant even though I'm on the Pill and we use condoms every time we have sex, I should keep the baby even though we're not living together and wouldn't be able to keep to support it?<br />
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And even if someone does sleep around and uses protection every time, she can still get pregnant. No contraception is 100%

LOL. That's pretty funny. You're obviously not getting my point. Just because someone wants to sleep around does not give them the right to get pregnant and then abort it because they don't have a bit of intelligence in their brain to not put themselves in the situation in the first place. That's all I'm saying. If you're going to be such a grown up and mess around in the first place you better be able to accept the consequences. It's extremely selfish. By the way, I'm not HOLY. Don't believe in GOD. I just believe that people just live up to their responsibilities as HUMAN BEINGS.

This one is a bit hard to take too. So everyone else should have babies because you can't? <br />
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I guess I can leave that one alone now. Now the rest:<br />
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So you'd make an exception? I don't get it. If it's murder, you're still going to murder an innocent child because...hmmm...this one is just as hard as the first, I suppose, but at least we know where you stand. Murder is all right as long as it's the kind you like. But all the rest can't because...because they chose, and therefore this is the price. So it's all about punishing the promiscuous mother. It's clearly not about saving innocent life because you've already told us it is an innocent life (not undifferentiated tissue, for instance) and yet you'd make an "exception." Who are you to make exceptions for innocent lives who must be killed because of your exception. I see, you are the one who can't have a baby, so you're in charge of the murder squad. <br />
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All this simply doesn't pass the smell test. It sounds like bitterness masquerading as holiness. Somebody usually tells people like that to take a hike.

You all need to get a clue. We ALL have the choice before we ever even have sex. If we're not ready to live up to the responsibility to have children we shouldn't be having sex unprotected. That being said, even with protection there is a chance of becoming pregnant. Still, if you are mature and responsible enought to have sex you need to be willing to live with the consequences. The child shouldn't have to suffer for your stupidity. In the case of rape, I would make an exception, but for all of you out there who just have sex with anyone and everyone and then think it's okay to just kill the child because you're too immature and selfish to live up to your responsibilities...I have no sympathy for you. It's completely irresponsible and stupid. There are plenty of us out here who aren't able to have children and would die for a child. Then we have ones who can get pregnant with the drop of a hat and then abort it. How completely selfish! If you're not ready for the consequences...you need to be the adult and do the right thing.

"The least she could have did was have my baby." Hahahaha! I like that one.

Let me get this straight. If a woman is raped and gets pregnant, and she's carrying...oh, let's say she's got triplets in there. She's got to bear them, according to you, because that would be a triple murder, right? Or would triple murder be somehow justified under the circumstances. Really? Three innocent children? Murder them? I think you've got to rethink all of this.

It's call ADOPTION. Put your **** away, it's nothing special to look at anyway....

Yes. She is supposed to have them. They didn't do anything to her. When she looks at them, she will not see her attacker. She will see her three precious miracles.

thanks.

yeah, i definitely want her to keep it. i feel attached now. i already have the nursery almost all put together. now i just have to buy the crib. so how many kids do you have?

I am for abortion, because of guys like you who are thinking more about raising children in their image rather than about the female who is bogged down by a pregnancy. Tell me, what is more important? Your sisters life, well being and freedom from shame from carrying the child of what could be a horrid father, or YOUR desire to have a nephew.<br />
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Thats my problem with pro-life types. <br />
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You all seem to think a female is nothing more than a life support system for a uterus.

Wow. This abortion thing is really hard. If I was in your ex gf's situation I would probably have to do the same thing, espcially because my parents are very strict. But it would really suck after because you'd feel the guilt. Your first child should always be the one you're most exited about, ofcourse. Just wish you luck and hope nothing goes wrong.

Wow. This abortion thing is really hard. If I was in your ex gf's situation I would probably have to do the same thing, espcially because my parents are very strict. But it would really suck after because you'd feel the guilt. Your first child should always be the one you're most exited about, ofcourse. Just wish you luck and hope nothing goes wrong.