Beautiful Melancholy

I am alone but I don't feel very much lonely at the moment. Matter of fact, I would rather be alone than be caught in mind-numbing social situation. I have lots of unpleasant pasts which I don't wanna unearth as much as possible because sometimes it hurts. Like in the movie said, "You dig up the past, all you get is dirt." Nevertheless, I think, sometimes being alone ain't a bad thing; hence, it's a beautiful melancholy.
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10 Responses Nov 25, 2011

Hi, I am alone too :-( it sucks! I feel your pain. I can't think of anything worse than than social doing. Being alone isn't a bad thing ( all the time). I have lost all the people in life that matter, I find it really hard living life without a family, but I guess just got to make the most of it an soldier on as they say.

I agree!!

u r right my frnd...but wat to do it automatically comes to mind

I not only hear you well, but listen with understanding. Often being alone can be good because when with others their true colors can show, and if not careful we can become as whom we associate with; therefore staying to ourselves with limits can be cautious wisdom.

No,.... Being alone isn't a bad thing AT ALL... I've been in relationships, I've lived with friends, & hung out with friends, but at the end of the day, I prefer... MY OWN SPACE :)

I like being alone but I don't like being lonely, which I am all the time.

melancholy is so different from depression....i call it desire:) it's the wonderful kind of longing pain, not the empty kind of pain.

You have a good point there. I tend to go from melancholy to depression and back again. If only i had a switch to keep it on one setting.

Its good to find peace in quiet safe surrondings, just relaxing

never looked at it like that- maybe that's what my life is, "beautiful melancholy."